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 Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2012 3:40 pm
'Cause I mean I know I am. Especially since gaining some weight. To the point where I KNOW I'm getting laid tonight and I'm freaking out about it. Hell I freaked out about him with his hand up my shirt, let alone naked...
How do you get over it? :<
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2012 3:47 pm
I shouldn't even being replying because I have never had an issue with this but...
I have never, ever thought that I wasn't attractive enough to have sex with, even when I was the heaviest I've been back in high school. I love my body, no matter what it looks like, and a guy is lucky as ******** that I'm willing to have sex with him. I shouldn't have to earn his affection by looking a certain way. I am amazing, and if he thinks that is entirely based on how I look then he doesn't deserve to have sex with me.
I have had sex with the lights on, in broad daylight, always with full frontal nudity, including walking around my place naked afterwards every time except once, when the guy turned the lights off because he was scared I would make fun of a scar he had.
Look in the mirror EVERY DAY and tell yourself how beautiful and amazing you are. The first time I did it I couldn't even say it and cried for like an hour until I could finally say it. Loving yourself as you are is difficult as ******** but when you finally get there it is magical.
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2012 4:05 pm
Morde
Look in the mirror EVERY DAY and tell yourself how beautiful and amazing you are. The first time I did it I couldn't even say it and cried for like an hour until I could finally say it. Loving yourself as you are is difficult as ******** but when you finally get there it is magical.
80 million times this
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2012 4:14 pm
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2012 7:24 pm
well that's the best damn thing i've read all day, morde :)
as for my response to the topic: i've been really self-conscious for a really long time. i'm just starting to get over it, but sometimes i still feel ugly. idk, the guy i've been seeing lately is always talking about how fantastic i look... it makes me feel much better :)
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2012 9:01 pm
I think Morde just earned a place as patron saint of the women's forum
But on topic, no. I had always been self-concious of my body, but after my first year of college, it stopped being such a big deal. I don't know what changed, but it means I don't get nervous about people touching my upper arms anymore so I'm not going to complain.
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Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 6:13 am
I never used to have body image issues. And then I got pregnant. And my skin stretched so badly that it split. Now I have stretchmarks everywhere and my scars from my c section cause my belly to hang like I just had bariatric surgery. Add a 35 lb weight gain and, my body image issues are back. Turn the lights off please before we do the nasty.
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Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 9:09 am
Is it weird that I'm more self-conscious about what I wear than when I'm naked?
Like when I'm naked, it's just "this is me, I can't really change this, so you better love me for this".
When I'm clothed though I'm always second guessing myself. Like with lingerie. I'm just like "what if he finds my bra unsexy?" I try to pick out my better looking underwear if I think there's a chance of sex later in the day. And I also try to pick clothes which aren't difficult to get off (because oh man it's a bit of a mood killer when I get stuck in my skinny skinny jeans >.>).
Yeah once the clothes are off though I feel good. It really comes down to loving myself. That doesn't mean you think you're perfect. It just means you respect who you are and what you look like. I'm sure I could lose some weight and tone up a bit. But you know what? I think I'm pretty attractive despite the flaws, and anyone who doesn't think so doesn't deserve me.
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Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 9:44 am
I'm actually not while having sex, but for some reason I'm really self conscious on camera. Like, not even in a dirty way, but even just talking in Skype, I feel awkward unless we're only audio chatting.
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Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 2:18 pm
It was all good and apparently he loves my body so 4laugh i found a ******** fantastic guy
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Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 3:28 pm
There is nothing more unattractive than a girl who can't stand to look at herself naked in the mirror.
Seriously.
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Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 4:04 pm
nope.
I'm self-conscious, bu doesn't bother me with anjel.
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Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 9:40 pm
Not during sex. I'm too concerned about others things like ohgod yes right there yup mmhmmm.
redface
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Posted: Sat Mar 03, 2012 6:17 am
Extremely. I wish I could be like Morde, in fact, I used to feel that way. I used to love my body. Then I got fat and now I am literally repulsed by my own flesh.
Nothing is worse than being on top during sex
Number one, I don't know what the ******** to do on top so I just kinda end up writhing around like a cat with a hair in it's a** trying to scoot across the carpet
Number two, Close up view of saggy stretchmarked stomach and tits., ew ew ewewewewew
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Posted: Sat Mar 03, 2012 6:34 am
I get self conscious about strange little things that the guy NEVER notices anyways, ever.
sex then normally actually gives me confidence and then you are like YEAHHH ******** LIKE A ROCK STAR
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