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The Snarfy


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 29, 2009 12:59 am


Lately, my girlfriend and I have been doing a lot of kinky things lately.

I love to feel her, and her curves, and just all of her body. But... she likes when I finger her. However, after trying it, I think the v****a is kinda gross.

I know that's kinda weird to say, but I just don't really like it. I love her breasts though. I have the time of my life there.

I mean, I finger because I love to see her in all that pleasure, but I was wondering...

Is there anything else I can do with my woman that can make her feel just as good, and doesn't directly involve me touching or fingering her v****a?

[PS. Sex is going to be hard for me, isn't it? xD ]
PostPosted: Sun Nov 29, 2009 10:54 am


Just because you don't like fingering a girl doesn't necessarily mean you won't enjoy intercourse. Having wet goo all over your hand will probably feel pretty different from having wet goo on your p***s. xp And even then you'll probably be wearing a condom anyway.

You can try putting a condom over your fingers next time. You can also try a sex toy. Or you can try just stimulating the clitoris. The clitoris is not messy, and most women orgasm from clitoral stimulation rather than vaginal anyway!

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The Snarfy


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 2:10 pm


I wish I had access to condoms. :[[[
PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 3:08 pm


If either of you can drive or walk to a store like Walmart, then you do have access to condoms! Some schools and doctors give them out too.

LorienLlewellyn

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SorrowfulMelevolence

PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 6:52 pm


Just wondering..are you a girl or a guy? Your profile says female...

Either way, if you're a girl, then yeah it's gonna be a bit difficult when it comes to sex, you can use a strap-on or d***o. If you're a guy you can and should put a condom on.

Like previously stated,if you want to finger her you can put a condom on your fingers. Maybe you can try oral, if you're into that (it might not feel gross in your mouth, maybe?).

Just remember that you should communicate with her, if it just becomes too gross for you, you guys can compromise.

Hope that helped wink
PostPosted: Thu Dec 03, 2009 6:21 pm


I just feel that if I was seen buying or getting a condom at the school, it would make me look bad.

I'm only 15, and so is she.

Yes, I'm male. Though, I'm a very feminine one at that. xD

In school, we're both straight A students, great attendence, and were active in co-ciricular activities.

I just feel like, if people knew, or even assumed we were sexually active, they might look down on us. sad


The Snarfy


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Nikolita
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PostPosted: Thu Dec 03, 2009 6:26 pm


Snarfina
I just feel that if I was seen buying or getting a condom at the school, it would make me look bad.

I'm only 15, and so is she.

Yes, I'm male. Though, I'm a very feminine one at that. xD

In school, we're both straight A students, great attendence, and were active in co-ciricular activities.

I just feel like, if people knew, or even assumed we were sexually active, they might look down on us. sad


It's up to you how you go about it then, though it's really no one's business but your own if you're being responsible about it. Just be careful about your parents/hers finding out if it would be a problem.

You can get them from any drugstore or pharmacy, and the person serving you from behind the counter shouldn't look down on you or say any comments if you're buying condoms. Actually I would go right to the manager and complain if that happened - I have been buying condoms and birth control since I was 17, and have never had a problem.

If you guys are both still 15, it might be a good idea to talk about having a back up plan first, in case anything happens, and she should look into additional birth control. Condoms can break and fail, and if that happens, something needs to be in place so you're not dealing with an unplanned pregnancy. If you think people will look down on you two for being sexually active, the stigma for being young/single parents is much worse. sweatdrop
PostPosted: Thu Dec 03, 2009 7:30 pm


Your sex life is no one else's business. But if you want to be extra discreet, try going to an older cashier, one who does not go to school with you or anything. You can also have a friend buy them for you.

And sexual activities are not just for "bad kids," so don't worry about that! I started having sex at 16. I was on birth control, was seeing an ob-gyn, was an A student, had perfect attendance, was a teachers pet, graduated at 17, went to college, etc. 3nodding

LorienLlewellyn

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