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 Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 11:42 pm
I'm not sure if this is in the relationship forum or not. if it is I apologeize. Before I liked my guy friend (lets call him B) I've liked this other guy (lets call him A) but apparently he broke my heart but oh well. So last week I was just talking to my science teacher asking if I could go to my locker, until my "friend" B poked me with a pencil on the side of my butt twice!! I guess he was trying to say hello so I replied when the teacher left. then ever since I've been thinking about him, I also had a dream about him sweatdrop . And well every time I wanna talk to him, I'm afraid of how I look because of my acne sad . So my problem is if I like him then admitted to him I might lose my friendship. I also get the feeling that he kinda likes me too because of what he did (even though some boys do that to me) so my question is...
Should I admit it to him or not?
Does he like me?
Is there any ways to stop liking him or thinking about him?
Do you think hes suspicious?
Is there anyway I can help him to stop the fight?
Is there any way I can get him to notice me or talk to me more?
Is his problem (about the fight) my problem too?
Ways of curing acne?
Why am I asking so many questions?
I forgot my other questions so I'll think about them later sweatdrop
**Update**: oh man oh man...I have talked to him but they're really short conversations though. I'm having a suspicion that he might know that I like him and I don't want him to find out on his own. Not only that but I found out hes having a problem which may cause him to get in a fight! I heard his friend saying that this kid physically purposely pushed him which he got mad about so they started cussing and pushing each other (thank god the teacher came right on time) they both might get in a fight even though the guy who I like dosen't want to. I wanna try to help but I'm afraid he might not want my asistance(I have went through this, I don't want none of my friends to go through this like me) he might also think that it ain't my problem. Is there any way I can help? I can't tell a teacher because he might hate me for it. besides I already have a friend(another guy)who got expelled, I don't want him to get expelled too
EDIT: After a few weeks of winter break I'm now not liking him although just alittle. But yeah, I heard that hes not being bugged no more which makes me feel a bit happy. if anything comes up I type it here ASAP
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Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 12:27 am
anyone?well any ways I gotta go I'll come back tomorrow.
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Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 1:55 am
It's in the right forum, so no worries.
Thinking about him can be chalked up to hormones. Dreaming about him could be due to you thinking about him a lot, or just a coincidence. Him poking you in the butt with the pencil could just be "him acting like a typical guy", or it could just be his way of saying hi to you, or him trying to get your attention. None of that is concrete proof that you like him, or that he likes you. On top of that, you're not confident due to your acne.
So why rush things? Why not just stay friends with him? By all means, it's your risk to take. And if you decide to date him, consider any consequences - what will happen if you two break up at some point? Will you still be friends? Will it be too awkward? Is it worth losing his friendship to date him?
Also, we can't tell you whether or not he likes you, as we can't read minds. If you're curious, ask him. Or just stay friends with him for awhile.
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Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 9:36 pm
Nikolita It's in the right forum, so no worries. Thinking about him can be chalked up to hormones. Dreaming about him could be due to you thinking about him a lot, or just a coincidence. Him poking you in the butt with the pencil could just be "him acting like a typical guy", or it could just be his way of saying hi to you, or him trying to get your attention. None of that is concrete proof that you like him, or that he likes you. On top of that, you're not confident due to your acne. So why rush things? Why not just stay friends with him? By all means, it's your risk to take. And if you decide to date him, consider any consequences - what will happen if you two break up at some point? Will you still be friends? Will it be too awkward? Is it worth losing his friendship to date him? Also, we can't tell you whether or not he likes you, as we can't read minds. If you're curious, ask him. Or just stay friends with him for awhile. Exactly, there could be a level of sexual tension between you and your friend which could soon pass. Don't rush things as you don't even seem to be sure that you like him. Give it some more time for you to figure yourself out and maybe see some more if he may like you.
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Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 11:09 pm
Nikolita It's in the right forum, so no worries. Thinking about him can be chalked up to hormones. Dreaming about him could be due to you thinking about him a lot, or just a coincidence. Him poking you in the butt with the pencil could just be "him acting like a typical guy", or it could just be his way of saying hi to you, or him trying to get your attention. None of that is concrete proof that you like him, or that he likes you. On top of that, you're not confident due to your acne. So why rush things? Why not just stay friends with him? By all means, it's your risk to take. And if you decide to date him, consider any consequences - what will happen if you two break up at some point? Will you still be friends? Will it be too awkward? Is it worth losing his friendship to date him? Also, we can't tell you whether or not he likes you, as we can't read minds. If you're curious, ask him. Or just stay friends with him for awhile. I never knew hormones can make people dream about other people. also one time me and my sis we were turning on the T.V then on the channel it was Scary Movie 3, and it had the same name me and my "guyfriend". Is that coincidence or something else?
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Posted: Sun Nov 27, 2005 6:25 pm
Symptom of the Universe Nikolita It's in the right forum, so no worries. Thinking about him can be chalked up to hormones. Dreaming about him could be due to you thinking about him a lot, or just a coincidence. Him poking you in the butt with the pencil could just be "him acting like a typical guy", or it could just be his way of saying hi to you, or him trying to get your attention. None of that is concrete proof that you like him, or that he likes you. On top of that, you're not confident due to your acne. So why rush things? Why not just stay friends with him? By all means, it's your risk to take. And if you decide to date him, consider any consequences - what will happen if you two break up at some point? Will you still be friends? Will it be too awkward? Is it worth losing his friendship to date him? Also, we can't tell you whether or not he likes you, as we can't read minds. If you're curious, ask him. Or just stay friends with him for awhile. Exactly, there could be a level of sexual tension between you and your friend which could soon pass. Don't rush things as you don't even seem to be sure that you like him. Give it some more time for you to figure yourself out and maybe see some more if he may like you. ok
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Posted: Sun Dec 04, 2005 6:06 pm
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Posted: Sun Dec 04, 2005 6:47 pm
Well I'm sorry but none of us can tell you whether he likes you or not. We can't read his mind any better then you can.
As far as asking him out, that is totally your decision. Yes, by asking him out you may put your friendship in danger. But if you really like him you will have to decide which is more important.
We all wish we could look into the future and see how the decisions work out but we can't so you you will just have to try and make a choice and hope it turns out the way you want.
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Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2005 2:21 pm
Chalda Well I'm sorry but none of us can tell you whether he likes you or not. We can't read his mind any better then you can.
As far as asking him out, that is totally your decision. Yes, by asking him out you may put your friendship in danger. But if you really like him you will have to decide which is more important.
We all wish we could look into the future and see how the decisions work out but we can't so you you will just have to try and make a choice and hope it turns out the way you want. I try but hes always with his friends...I'm a shy person neutral
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Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2005 11:27 pm
Regarding the fighting, you could just let him know you're there for support if he needs to talk to someone about his problems, and so on. Maybe that will keep him from fighting with other people. Or you could urge him to talk to a school counsellor.
If you're worried about him finding out on his own that he likes you, what's the big deal? Why don't you want him to find out that you like him - I thought that was the point? You could either wait and see what happens, or beat him to the punch and just tell him. Then you won't have to worry about him finding out on his own.
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Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2005 3:54 pm
Nikolita Regarding the fighting, you could just let him know you're there for support if he needs to talk to someone about his problems, and so on. Maybe that will keep him from fighting with other people. Or you could urge him to talk to a school counsellor. If you're worried about him finding out on his own that he likes you, what's the big deal? Why don't you want him to find out that you like him - I thought that was the point? You could either wait and see what happens, or beat him to the punch and just tell him. Then you won't have to worry about him finding out on his own. its because that happened to me (almost) before. I told a guy friend of mine that I like him...and well....lets just say we never have spoken to each other since sad
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Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2005 4:20 pm
StreetchIck123 Nikolita Regarding the fighting, you could just let him know you're there for support if he needs to talk to someone about his problems, and so on. Maybe that will keep him from fighting with other people. Or you could urge him to talk to a school counsellor. If you're worried about him finding out on his own that he likes you, what's the big deal? Why don't you want him to find out that you like him - I thought that was the point? You could either wait and see what happens, or beat him to the punch and just tell him. Then you won't have to worry about him finding out on his own. its because that happened to me (almost) before. I told a guy friend of mine that I like him...and well....lets just say we never have spoken to each other since sad Doesn't mean it will happen every time. If he made the choice to not talk to you again after you told him you liked him, then it's HIS problem, not yours, and it's his loss as well. Anyone who chooses to stop talking to you just because you like them, isn't worth your time anyways. It's really your choice to make. But if you think he might find out on his own first, then telling him first might be something to consider.
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Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2005 4:31 pm
here are some answers to your questions below...
Should I admit it to him or not? when you like someone alot or you just like them ask one of your friends to ask him if he likes you or not. then you go for the goal.
Does he like me? he could like you but the answer above should help you alot for this one aswell.
Is there any ways to stop liking him or thinking about him? usualy when u like someone it just happens and when u start to see more about him your gonna be thinking "omg i went out/liked that jerk!"
Do you think hes suspicious? every guy is suspicious at one point of time.
Is there anyway I can help him to stop the fight? talk to him or be near him at anytime, but dont stalk him!
Is there any way I can get him to notice me or talk to me more? maybe your blemishes would probably help you more to clear it up by washing you face with soap and water every night and then put poroxide on your face. or proactive (no achol because it brings out the redness)
Is his problem (about the fight) my problem too? no
Why am I asking so many questions? your suspicious 4laugh
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Posted: Wed Dec 14, 2005 5:39 pm
Nikolita StreetchIck123 Nikolita Regarding the fighting, you could just let him know you're there for support if he needs to talk to someone about his problems, and so on. Maybe that will keep him from fighting with other people. Or you could urge him to talk to a school counsellor. If you're worried about him finding out on his own that he likes you, what's the big deal? Why don't you want him to find out that you like him - I thought that was the point? You could either wait and see what happens, or beat him to the punch and just tell him. Then you won't have to worry about him finding out on his own. its because that happened to me (almost) before. I told a guy friend of mine that I like him...and well....lets just say we never have spoken to each other since sad Doesn't mean it will happen every time. If he made the choice to not talk to you again after you told him you liked him, then it's HIS problem, not yours, and it's his loss as well. Anyone who chooses to stop talking to you just because you like them, isn't worth your time anyways. It's really your choice to make. But if you think he might find out on his own first, then telling him first might be something to consider. it happened to me 3 times I don't want it to happen again. I'm friends with some of his guy friends which means that if I tell him then he'll tell all of his friends (that are friends with me) to avoid me. Today I was staying after with my sis and he was there walking alone, then she started giving me snickering looks and keep telling me "hes there hes there" while looking at him which I think gave him suspicions so he left. I'm guessing thats why hes sorta avoiding/not talking to me sad and I got pissed at my sister because of that neutral
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Posted: Wed Dec 14, 2005 5:49 pm
KraziiCheerleader here are some answers to your questions below... Should I admit it to him or not? when you like someone alot or you just like them ask one of your friends to ask him if he likes you or not. then you go for the goal. Does he like me? he could like you but the answer above should help you alot for this one aswell. Is there any ways to stop liking him or thinking about him? usualy when u like someone it just happens and when u start to see more about him your gonna be thinking "omg i went out/liked that jerk!" Do you think hes suspicious? every guy is suspicious at one point of time. Is there anyway I can help him to stop the fight? talk to him or be near him at anytime, but dont stalk him! Is there any way I can get him to notice me or talk to me more? maybe your blemishes would probably help you more to clear it up by washing you face with soap and water every night and then put poroxide on your face. or proactive (no achol because it brings out the redness) Is his problem (about the fight) my problem too? no Why am I asking so many questions? your suspicious 4laugh I'm putting cover ups so that it can cover the acne but it ain't working (I'm using Clearasil but still ain't workin).eeeep! I just hope he ain't suspicious yet, I'll try what you said on the 3rd question. I also tried dressing up more "punkish" (I'm guessing he likes girls with some punk clothing) I think hes getting suspicious because he used to do whatever I did in class (doing the exact same movements xd which was kinda funny)but no anymore...although he does glance at me from time to time which I pretend to not notice. I also talk more with my other guy friends so that he wouldn't think that I only talk to the girls and that hes not the only guy I talk to.
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