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XxTwilight_Lover

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 15, 2009 9:24 pm


There's this guy I like, but he's giving me mixed signals. Here's a summary of the past school year.
Note: we're in one class period together, out elective wheel. He's one grade above me. The wheel is woodshop, engineering, and then art. We're going to be in art next week.

Woodshop
* He helped me with my shop project when I got stuck
* He asked me who I liked
* I overheard his friend (best friend) saying, "That's her? That's who he likes?"
* He stood behind me when we were finishing our shop project

Engineering
* He then got a girlfriend (with a locker near mine), and PDAs every lunch.
* He looks at me when he's hugging her
* He looks at me from across the room during class
* I overheard him saying, "She looks at me the WHOLE period. Dude, it's freaky." But I don't know if he's talking about me
* He voted for me when we did a project
* When we were switching seats, he went to the table next to mine
* He went to stand by me when we were standing in line
* He never talks to me, at all

So did he like me, then stop? Or does he like me? Or does he not? Guys can post, I want their opinion too.
PostPosted: Mon Mar 16, 2009 1:09 pm


You're on the border of the friend zone. Which means, he might like you, but will easily be pushed over to only wanting you as a friend.

As for looking at you while he's hugging his girlfriend -- do you really want a guy like that as a boyfriend?

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XxTwilight_Lover

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 16, 2009 3:39 pm


I don't know, he doesn't look at me in "that way." It's just kinda ackward.
PostPosted: Mon Mar 16, 2009 5:10 pm


hm. look, i don't mean to be offensive -- but he doesn't like you.

if he does, then great! but his signals are pretty negative about that. remember, boys are not girls. boys are boys. boys have different ways of expressing themselves -- not even counting each individual.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 16, 2009 6:46 pm


Thanks. This is kinda a dead topic know, huh? Hmm...anyone here like Twilight?
PostPosted: Mon Mar 16, 2009 8:23 pm


yes, very much. it's a very pretty time of day.

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 17, 2009 4:36 pm


lol. I meant the books, the Twilight Saga. But yes, twilight is a very pretty time of day.
PostPosted: Sat Mar 21, 2009 1:39 am


XxTwilight_Lover
lol. I meant the books, the Twilight Saga. But yes, twilight is a very pretty time of day.

I've never read it mew, so I really wouldn't know, sorry. And jeez I know guys can be so URGH sometimes, like this one guy I'm sort of dating mew, he's just so ergh, I don't know why but I cant seem to understand him for the life of me. So I like got some martial arts books from the library because he's like big about that stuff mew *blush* I don't really know much except that I took a year of taekwondo when I was like in... grade school I think? I don't even remember half of it, except most of the blocks I just kind of do subconsciously, weird huh? Still it's good to have some self defense training mew, because it can protect you sometimes if like someone grabs my arm I can easily break out of it, even if they have two hands on my arm, my sensei taught me the trick ^^ But... it kinda doesn't work if you freeze like I tend to... so... yeah mew...

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Otfee

PostPosted: Sat Mar 21, 2009 8:37 pm


princesschelsea5
XxTwilight_Lover
lol. I meant the books, the Twilight Saga. But yes, twilight is a very pretty time of day.

I've never read it mew, so I really wouldn't know, sorry. And jeez I know guys can be so URGH sometimes, like this one guy I'm sort of dating mew, he's just so ergh, I don't know why but I cant seem to understand him for the life of me. So I like got some martial arts books from the library because he's like big about that stuff mew *blush* I don't really know much except that I took a year of taekwondo when I was like in... grade school I think? I don't even remember half of it, except most of the blocks I just kind of do subconsciously, weird huh? Still it's good to have some self defense training mew, because it can protect you sometimes if like someone grabs my arm I can easily break out of it, even if they have two hands on my arm, my sensei taught me the trick ^^ But... it kinda doesn't work if you freeze like I tend to... so... yeah mew...

I suggest that you find out what type of martial arts he likes if you haven't already. I'm a huge martial arts fan and it annoys me to death when people confuse the martial arts I'm taking with some other martial art.

Also, if you're going to learn Martial Arts yourself, I suggest something other than Taekwondo. Twaekando is much more flashy stuff than anything else. Aikido might be good though.
PostPosted: Wed Mar 25, 2009 11:22 am


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princesschelsea5
XxTwilight_Lover
lol. I meant the books, the Twilight Saga. But yes, twilight is a very pretty time of day.

I've never read it mew, so I really wouldn't know, sorry. And jeez I know guys can be so URGH sometimes, like this one guy I'm sort of dating mew, he's just so ergh, I don't know why but I cant seem to understand him for the life of me. So I like got some martial arts books from the library because he's like big about that stuff mew *blush* I don't really know much except that I took a year of taekwondo when I was like in... grade school I think? I don't even remember half of it, except most of the blocks I just kind of do subconsciously, weird huh? Still it's good to have some self defense training mew, because it can protect you sometimes if like someone grabs my arm I can easily break out of it, even if they have two hands on my arm, my sensei taught me the trick ^^ But... it kinda doesn't work if you freeze like I tend to... so... yeah mew...

I suggest that you find out what type of martial arts he likes if you haven't already. I'm a huge martial arts fan and it annoys me to death when people confuse the martial arts I'm taking with some other martial art.

Also, if you're going to learn Martial Arts yourself, I suggest something other than Taekwondo. Twaekando is much more flashy stuff than anything else. Aikido might be good though.

Really? I see, well martial arts isn't really an option right now, I'm not supposed to get in any strenuous activities or to active of them mew. My heart is having serious problems, but thank you for that advice mew ^^ And he kinda likes them all, and wants to learn Muay Thai. So I have a book on that on reserve from the library too ^^

princesschelsea5
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Iceychiida

PostPosted: Fri Mar 27, 2009 6:49 pm


I think he doesn't like you, but he just cares about your opinion. That's how we, 'we' being the group of friends I have, 3 girls, 1 guy, met the second guy who joined our group. Jen thought he liked her, and was going crazy about it. So, when we asked him, he said he just wanted to know what we, not just her, all of us, thought about him and what he did.

I think that might be the case, maybe you should get a friend to ask him what's up. it helps, but be careful about it, okay? Anything could happen.
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