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weird???
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what eva
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Emo_Frenger

PostPosted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 3:49 pm


almost every night i hear my mom breathing heavey and other stuff
i dont have a problem with it but do you think that its weird or that doind it every night is wrong?
PostPosted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 4:07 pm


There's nothing wrong with it, and it's actually a good thing. If they're being intimate with each other, it's a sign that your parents still love and respect each other, and are still comfortable with sharing something that special together.

If it's bothering you or if you're uncomfortable hearing them, you can always bring it up with them and try to work something out.

I used to hear my parents having sex at night (my room was right next to theirs) and for me it was really uncomfortable and not something I liked hearing. So my solution was to listen to music to fall asleep at night - but that's just me.

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LorienLlewellyn

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 4:10 pm


Nikolita
There's nothing wrong with it, and it's actually a good thing. If they're being intimate with each other, it's a sign that your parents still love and respect each other, and are still comfortable with sharing something that special together.

If it's bothering you or if you're uncomfortable hearing them, you can always bring it up with them and try to work something out.

I used to hear my parents having sex at night (my room was right next to theirs) and for me it was really uncomfortable and not something I liked hearing. So my solution was to listen to music to fall asleep at night - but that's just me.


Agreed. There's certainly nothing wrong with the fact that your parents have sex every night, but I don't blame you if you don't want to listen to it either! Music, tv, headphones, etc. can help with that.
PostPosted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 7:18 pm


Nikolita
There's nothing wrong with it, and it's actually a good thing. If they're being intimate with each other, it's a sign that your parents still love and respect each other, and are still comfortable with sharing something that special together.

If it's bothering you or if you're uncomfortable hearing them, you can always bring it up with them and try to work something out.

I used to hear my parents having sex at night (my room was right next to theirs) and for me it was really uncomfortable and not something I liked hearing. So my solution was to listen to music to fall asleep at night - but that's just me.

you know i think you're right! i will listen to my i-pod

Emo_Frenger


LilMissSplendiferous

PostPosted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 7:45 pm


I feel better when I do hear noises coming from their room at night. It means they aren't fighting. Granted, it's Mom and her bf, so no noises means that he could be kicked out. He's like a dad to me.
PostPosted: Thu Sep 04, 2008 10:30 am


my room is all the way down the hall from my parents bedroom but when im watching tv in the loft sometimes i hear them and they know im in the loft they can at least tell me to go to my room haha its not really something i want to hear

Ghettobilly


Nikolita
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PostPosted: Thu Sep 04, 2008 12:07 pm


Emo_Frenger
Nikolita
There's nothing wrong with it, and it's actually a good thing. If they're being intimate with each other, it's a sign that your parents still love and respect each other, and are still comfortable with sharing something that special together.

If it's bothering you or if you're uncomfortable hearing them, you can always bring it up with them and try to work something out.

I used to hear my parents having sex at night (my room was right next to theirs) and for me it was really uncomfortable and not something I liked hearing. So my solution was to listen to music to fall asleep at night - but that's just me.

you know i think you're right! i will listen to my i-pod


Good to hear. 3nodding
PostPosted: Sun Sep 14, 2008 8:21 am


If you want to talk to them about it, but feel too embarrassed, you could always look for their condoms and through them away (not in the trashcan, they can find them there). They might understand that you feel uncomfortable then xd
I mean it could be another way of telling your opinion.

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LorienLlewellyn

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PostPosted: Sun Sep 14, 2008 10:42 am


Mikusagi
If you want to talk to them about it, but feel too embarrassed, you could always look for their condoms and through them away (not in the trashcan, they can find them there). They might understand that you feel uncomfortable then xd
I mean it could be another way of telling your opinion.


That's true; it could be a way to let them know that they're being too loud, but I really think throwing their condoms away would be a bad idea.

1. Condoms cost money and are really important. It's never a good idea to tamper with someone's condoms. They could get caught up in the mood and decide how to have sex without a condom if they can't find them. There's nothing funny about accidental pregnancy and STDs.

2. Snooping through Mom and Dad's room isn't really respectful. I don't want people to snoop through my stuff, so I don't snoop through theirs.

3. There's a very good chance her parents are not using condoms. When people have been together a long time and don't have STDs, they usually end up opting for another form of birth control.

There's nothing wrong with the fact that her parents have sex. Her issue was more that she was able to hear it, which we all agreed can be avoided for the most part while still being safe and respectful. Or to get the message across that they're being a little loud, she can turn the tv up really loud. xp That would block the sound for her and be a hint to them that she can hear them!
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