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the_forgotten_thought Captain
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 Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 5:51 pm
oh my gosh! this is so stupid! i was talking with my mom, dad, sister and her gay friend at lunch once and we started talking about lesbians (i the closet. not making fun of me). first they started talking about how one popular lesbian at the high school was disgusting and gross just cuz she's a LESBIAN. then my sister started talking about a girl from her old school who MUST be a "dyke" because she dresses like a boy. it's not so much the fact that they were making fun of girls for dressing like boys (haha, like me) that annoyed me, but the fact that they only didn't like them because they liked girls. well, what made it worse was then they started talking about how girls are only lesbians when thier drunk! HELLO! SHOW OF HANDS: ANY LESBIANS HAD A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT BEING DRUNK?! ugh, i can't stand that! i mean, my sister's friend was joining in on the girls clothes, but he didn't even defend the whole drunk thing! is it just my family or has anyone else ever met someone who tolerates a gay GUY but not lesbian/bisexual?
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Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 7:37 pm
Haha, wow.
Then i must've been completely drunk for three years of my life XD What a ball i had.
It's weird that even your sisters gay friend even joined in on it 0.o
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Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 10:13 pm
first of all, i think they don't like lesbians because they know deep down that you are one. it's that psychological thing. family are usually in tuned with eachother.
second of all, perhaps the gay guy has either: had some problems with lesbians before and doesn't like all of them becuase of that. i'm the same way with skater boys and cheerleaders. i've had friends that are both, but it's just the psychological thing. or he could just be joining in to fit in with your parents.
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Posted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 4:28 pm
that makes sense. so does that mean that if i come out, if they already expect it, it should be ok? cuz, like, my friend was always being asked by his mom and bro if he was gay, but when he came out, they were still in denial. so, do i have luck, or would it still be bad to come out?
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the_forgotten_thought Captain
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 3:03 pm
i know all about that every one in my school is ok with gay guys
but a lesbien is the grossest thing on earth im a lezbien in my school
and no one talks to me but a few kids and every one talking bad about me
and how i have to keep me and my girlfrends relation ship a secret so that my girfriend dosent get the same treatment sad
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 6:00 pm
aimeet44 i know all about that every one in my school is ok with gay guys but a lesbien is the grossest thing on earth im a lezbien in my school and no one talks to me but a few kids and every one talking bad about me and how i have to keep me and my girlfrends relation ship a secret so that my girfriend dosent get the same treatment sad ugh, where i live, only the straights and some bisexuals are accepted. they always wanna talk about their love lives, and i can never get one! and a lot find gay girls worse than gay guys. it's really unfair. i guess they just find bis "1 step closer to normal". but that's not fair at all. it's horrible. but i'm glad you had the guts to have everyone know. i couldn't do that. i'm also glad that for you you were able to find another girl. it's pretty lucky. at least your not alone. 3nodding
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the_forgotten_thought Captain
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Posted: Tue Apr 08, 2008 10:48 am
wow i must have been drunk for 5 years of my life , i dont remember being drunk, humm idk but hey i love girls so ill stay drunk lol
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Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 2:01 am
yeah, it sounds like your sis's friend is very insecure to join in that way...
and I know that where I live, gay men are looked at as clean, stylish fabulous people, while the lesbians are considered to be rude, man-hating beeyatches. I hate theses stereotypes. I am bisexual, and told my parents 5 years ago. At first they thought it was just a phase, but they know now...
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Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 9:50 am
At my high school, everyone was always best friends with the gay guys. Bisexual girls were okay. But if someone started talking about a lesbian, it was them saying that lesbians were sluts or whores. It's so stupid the way ppl think some times.
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 4:45 pm
Homophobia is ignorance...
Being homophobic means being insecure about being heterosexual...so one of my friends put it to me. She's right.
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Posted: Mon May 19, 2008 11:22 am
aimeet44 i know all about that every one in my school is ok with gay guys but a lesbien is the grossest thing on earth im a lezbien in my school and no one talks to me but a few kids and every one talking bad about me and how i have to keep me and my girlfrends relation ship a secret so that my girfriend dosent get the same treatment sad i feel ya.. i mean, most of my friends are okay but i lost my best friends since i dated a dyke.. she dont want anything to do with me since then.. and my own lil bro wont talk to me for about a year now after the news leaked out ~ somehow.. he's 18 this year, im 20.. its a good thing he didnt blab it to my parents tho.. confused
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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 7:13 pm
angel_lycious aimeet44 i know all about that every one in my school is ok with gay guys but a lesbien is the grossest thing on earth im a lezbien in my school and no one talks to me but a few kids and every one talking bad about me and how i have to keep me and my girlfrends relation ship a secret so that my girfriend dosent get the same treatment sad i feel ya.. i mean, most of my friends are okay but i lost my best friends since i dated a dyke.. she dont want anything to do with me since then.. and my own lil bro wont talk to me for about a year now after the news leaked out ~ somehow.. he's 18 this year, im 20.. its a good thing he didnt blab it to my parents tho.. confused man, and then family members always wonder why we don't tell them everything. it's totally lame how there's that double standard that gay guys are ok but all lesbians are horny. i mean, wtf? and that thing about your best friends, that's just horrible. i mean, family members have this stupid thing where they just CAN'T for the most part, accept it. friends are supposed to understand everything, though. i'm sorry. they suck!
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