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My friend is having problems with her boyfriend, or ex....

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Nabhijeet

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 1:55 pm


She is probably the only friend that is honest with me with everything and someone that I can fully trust to tell my problems.
Well, shes has gone out with my friend for 2 years till the day before Valentines day my guy friend broke up with her. She and I were so confused and he didn't tell her why he wanted to break up with her and he didn't want her to tell anybody what was going on and stuff (But she told me anyways). The only people that knows is me, and two other guy friends of mine.
On that day they broke up, he told my guy friend that he broke up with my friend. And he broke up with her because she 'Linked' arms with her guy friend in a friendly way. Last year he found out that her guy friend told her that he had a crush on her but she told him that she didn't see him in that way. Her boyfriend freak out on her and told her not to hug or show any closeness to any of her guy friends. And so she did...she stop talking to all of them except with my two guy friends until she spoke to one of her guy friends that she hasn't spoken for a long time and thats when he got mad and broke up with her. And the funny thing is that all his friends are girls (me..lol) and he always trys to grabs my boobs or DOES grab my boobs and tickles my thighs and too other girls to. I once got so mad at him that I told him to stop and ignored him for a couple of days....and when I started to talk to him he started it again. He is the biggest flirt you can ever meet and he thinks that every thing is his ex-girlfriends fault that he had to break with her.
They broke up 2 other times but I think that this is the real break up now.
Once he got mad at his ex-girlfriend because she was walking with a guy, talking and that day someone that he was working with told him that she liked him. He decided to go to the Pacific mall and his ex offered to take him, by bus, so he can know how to get there and that time they were still going out so she thought that she would walk around with him in the P-Mall but when they got there he left her there and left with the girl that earlier that day said she like him.
I told her not to waste her time with him anymore because, you know, he is stupid, and a big flirt.
If there is a problem and they are arguing...he doesn't want to talk about it and he would ignore you...so no matter what you to try to fix the problem...he would care.
What else should I tell her?
She still has feelings for him...he is a nice guy to talk to but there is a couple of down sides to him.
This situation is actually nothing big!
But he is just making it seem bigger.
Edit**
She just called him to speak with him to try to fix things up (last time) and he hung up on her.
PostPosted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 2:07 pm


She should talk to him about the double standard going on here, and if he can't get his act together she might want to consider trying to move on if he's going to overreact like that.

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 2:25 pm


innoittaa
She should talk to him about the double standard going on here, and if he can't get his act together she might want to consider trying to move on if he's going to overreact like that.

She already fed up of always going to him to try to talk to.
He ignored her once for a whole week and he decided to say hi in and she like "Are you done ignoring me?"
That was like a year ago when he got mad at her because she didn't want to go to a dance.
So yea.
She just called me and some new stuff happen...and I just told her to just ignore him and move on.
PostPosted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 2:58 pm


From the sound of it, that's a very good idea. He may be a good guy in general, but from the sound of it he's got a lot of work to do in the boyfriend department. I'm sorry she has to go through this because he's being a jackass.

innoittaa


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PostPosted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 9:09 pm


She should just leave him, forget about him.. period :/

He isn't worth her time if he's constantly acting like a possessive controlling douchebag D:<

I hope she moves on and forgets about him ._.
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