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 Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 3:54 pm
I am really pissed off now...he doesn't talk to me at school and when I come to home to MSN, he NEVER shuts up! Well, before about 1 month ago...he said that he was nerves to go to the mall and buy AC (Animal crossing game for DS lite). SO, I offered to go do a little shopping for him...he gave me his money at school and that day, I went to the mall and bought the game for him and gave it to him the following day.
Now, again, he is asking me to go to the mall again to do a little 'shopping' for him.
This isn't the first time he asked me a favor to go out and do something for him. I agreed to go by it because he is too chicken s**t to go again and ask.
The mall isn't 5 seconds away from his house.
-___-;;
MAD
Today: Jan. 24
I am sooo sorry. I was very mad yesterday.
D':
I have to rant
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Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 4:13 pm
Wait, why would someone be nervous to go to the mall to get a game?
sweatdrop Oh, and I'm new to this guild by the way. It's nice to meet you.
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Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 4:19 pm
Demonic_angel94 Wait, why would someone be nervous to go to the mall to get a game? sweatdrop Oh, and I'm new to this guild by the way. It's nice to meet you. Nice to meet you to! And welcome to PPS!!!
Hope you like it here xDDD
Lol, It only takes two mins to go in, and buy the game! He can't do it because he thinks that when he is talking to the guy to ask where the game is....that he might say something wrong to them or something.
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Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 4:34 pm
SakuraWars Demonic_angel94 Wait, why would someone be nervous to go to the mall to get a game? sweatdrop Oh, and I'm new to this guild by the way. It's nice to meet you. Nice to meet you to! And welcome to PPS!!!
Hope you like it here xDDD
Lol, It only takes two mins to go in, and buy the game! He can't do it because he thinks that when he is talking to the guy to ask where the game is....that he might say something wrong to them or something. Demonic: Welcome to PPS! <3 Sakura: Aww. Sounds like he's just got a case of social phobia. (That's a real psychiatric term, by the way.) I'm like that too, but I've been getting better. Try offering to go with him instead of for him. He needs to be able to go out and do things for himself eventually, but he needs to ease into the idea first.
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Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 4:57 pm
Valerie521 SakuraWars Demonic_angel94 Wait, why would someone be nervous to go to the mall to get a game? sweatdrop Oh, and I'm new to this guild by the way. It's nice to meet you. Nice to meet you to! And welcome to PPS!!!
Hope you like it here xDDD
Lol, It only takes two mins to go in, and buy the game! He can't do it because he thinks that when he is talking to the guy to ask where the game is....that he might say something wrong to them or something. Demonic: Welcome to PPS! <3 Sakura: Aww. Sounds like he's just got a case of social phobia. (That's a real psychiatric term, by the way.) I'm like that too, but I've been getting better. Try offering to go with him instead of for him. He needs to be able to go out and do things for himself eventually, but he needs to ease into the idea first. I've tried to make him come but he doesn't want to.
He said he use to talk..he said that he could talk if he wanted to...but he said he choices not to talk because he is afraid that he might say something wrong. Maybe he doesn't like me or something? He talks to other people but me. Its rude not to talk to someone that is trying to help you out....really, people not talking and look really sad makes me sad.
And plus, my friend asked him if he considered me a friend and he said no...well he didn't say it...but he wrote it. And that really hurt my feelings.
On msn he tells me his feelings and how depressed he is and I try to help and yet he doesn't consider me as a friend.
He once pulled out a knife on my friend.
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Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 5:11 pm
Hmm... this is a tough situation. Well, I think you should lay it out to him, even if it has to be on MSN. Tell him exactly what you told us - that it hurts that he doesn't consider you to be a friend when you're trying to help him, and that if he wants to start going to the mall with you, you'll be happy to go, and that if he wants you to help him, you will, but that you're not going to be a little maid forever. Sometimes you just have to let people know where you stand...
I get nervous sometimes asking people for things, but... *shrugs* I usually either work up the courage or decide it wasn't that important. D: I once worked up the courage to go into Toys R Us and ask about Sailor Moon toys, and it turns out that the clerks hadn't even heard of it. ><
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Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 5:36 pm
Sailor_Chibi
Hmm... this is a tough situation. Well, I think you should lay it out to him, even if it has to be on MSN. Tell him exactly what you told us - that it hurts that he doesn't consider you to be a friend when you're trying to help him, and that if he wants to start going to the mall with you, you'll be happy to go, and that if he wants you to help him, you will, but that you're not going to be a little maid forever. Sometimes you just have to let people know where you stand...
I get nervous sometimes asking people for things, but... *shrugs* I usually either work up the courage or decide it wasn't that important. D: I once worked up the courage to go into Toys R Us and ask about Sailor Moon toys, and it turns out that the clerks hadn't even heard of it. ><
The clerks hadn't heard of Sai-- I call bull on that! Everyone knows who Sailor Moon is!
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Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 5:43 pm
Valerie521 Sailor_Chibi
Hmm... this is a tough situation. Well, I think you should lay it out to him, even if it has to be on MSN. Tell him exactly what you told us - that it hurts that he doesn't consider you to be a friend when you're trying to help him, and that if he wants to start going to the mall with you, you'll be happy to go, and that if he wants you to help him, you will, but that you're not going to be a little maid forever. Sometimes you just have to let people know where you stand...
I get nervous sometimes asking people for things, but... *shrugs* I usually either work up the courage or decide it wasn't that important. D: I once worked up the courage to go into Toys R Us and ask about Sailor Moon toys, and it turns out that the clerks hadn't even heard of it. ><
The clerks hadn't heard of Sai-- I call bull on that! Everyone knows who Sailor Moon is!
Yeah, I know. It totally pissed me off. D:
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Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 6:26 pm
Does he by any chance have a social anxiety disorder?
confused If he does, then I know exactly how he feels, and you should be understanding if he does. It's nerve racking to go up to people.
But, from the sounds of it, he seems like he's trying to be a manly man or something. Because manly men don't go to buy Animal Crossing for the DS.
xDD
I think you should tell him how it is.
Either go and get it yourself, or live with it. You're not the maid that's suppose to go out and do errands for him.
Unless he like. Pays you to do it or something. xD
And welcome to the guild, Demonic!
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Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 7:06 pm
Welcome to the guild, Demonic! <3333
@Sakura: Honestly, you should tell him how you feel or else nothing will get anywhere @-@; It isn't fair to you for him to treat you like that. Demand some answers from him! xO
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Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 10:33 pm
That's sounds...not very nice, I mean, you talk to him and do his shopping for him but he doesn't consider you a friend?
Wth?
Well I think he should try going with someone else, so that he's not as nervous. I don't know why he wouldn't go with you though. That's weird.
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Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 12:13 pm
Grin Evilly Does he by any chance have a social anxiety disorder?
confused If he does, then I know exactly how he feels, and you should be understanding if he does. It's nerve racking to go up to people.
But, from the sounds of it, he seems like he's trying to be a manly man or something. Because manly men don't go to buy Animal Crossing for the DS.
xDD
I think you should tell him how it is.
Either go and get it yourself, or live with it. You're not the maid that's suppose to go out and do errands for him.
Unless he like. Pays you to do it or something. xD
And welcome to the guild, Demonic! He's not manly at all.
Lol.
(Not mad today)
He is a very very girly person. I thought at first that he was gay or something....but he's not.
I didn't see him at school today so I guess...I don't know if I'm going shopping for him today. lol
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Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 1:41 pm
Here's my solution:
Every time he makes you buy something, charge him a workers tax. Or whatever. Like, "Here's you game, you owe me $20 for my services." rofl
Edit: Shoot, Grinny beat me too it.
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