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 Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 10:22 pm
ok so someone i really loved who is an ex got mad at me for something i didnt say and now he never wants to talk to me ever again. me and him had been talking and i told my sister what we had talked about because she had already knew about and she thought i said something so she told another who got mad and called my ex and asked if it was really said and then he decided that i put word in his mouth and now we arnt talking. i miss him alot but i kinda feel like this is helping me get over him. it hurts alot inside and i just wanna die
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Posted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 8:46 pm
And he didn't even ask you if that's what you really said? Well now that sounds a little rash of him to do.
Well at least it will help you get over him. You need some time off from relationships anyway. Know that he's being rash, but understand that that kind of thing can happen when people feel hurt as if a friend is putting words in his mouth. I know you didn't put words in his mouth but he, in his defensiveness, didn't think of that first. He may come to that conclusion soon enough.
In the mean time have a little me-time.
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Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 11:20 am
If he didn't even bother asking you to see if that is what you really had said then that is basically saying that he trusted everyone else more than he trusted you. Another thing.. you shouldn't tell anyone ever what happens or what is said between you an a significant other. That's why all this happened. But the fact that he didn't even bother asking means that he wasn't worth your time. look at things positively. you are a better person than him because you trusted him more than he trusted you and you never said anything of what he thought you had said. Just do your best to get over him and move on. There are always other people out there. and i know you might be thinking that you don't want anyone else other than him but those feelings pass... if you let them, and in time you will find someone better. 3nodding
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Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 7:57 pm
This was several months ago so any advice I have now probably won't be needed. xp I have been through that before and it really sucks. Trust is a huge issue, especially when you're hearing things from friends as well. I hope it's worked out well for you and that you've moved on from him. I would hate it if my bf trusted other people more than me...
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