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I have... really bad boy problems

Subaru-hime

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Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 10:15 pm

Okay. I reallllllly need help on this. Terribly. There's these 2 boys.

Boy #1 lives near me and is so sweet and kind to me and is always there for me, no matter what.
Then there's Boy #2 He... lives far away in another state. He's really nice to me and always tells me he loves me. He would do anything for me.
It's just... I really like them both and I really need help on how to settle this without hurting anyone cause there both my best friends. I don't want one of them to start hating me because, boys have done that in the past and I don't want to lose my best friends

Posted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 9:21 am

Honestly I don't think the long distance thing would work,so I would probably go with the first one.

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Posted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 2:57 pm

Well i agree that you should go with the first one, just because he is closer. If you like them the same amount, then the distance should probably be the deciding factor.
On not hurting them, i think its best to just be honest to Boy number 2. Say to him i'm really sorry, but you live to far away for it to work, say that you want to be friends still, throw in a load of cliches and it should be ok. Of course he'll be hurt, but you can't stop that, if he loves you like he says he'll want you to be happy and he'll accept your decision. He won't hate you.
x-Good luck-x

Posted: Tue Nov 27, 2007 7:41 pm

it's really where your heart lies. long distance is really hard.

in my opinion if the one you don't pick is really your best friend, he'll be you friend regardless.

Good luck!

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SexiiBurrrito

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Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 10:39 am

Long distance never works unless you have known the person in real life and they have moved away...even then it goes sour.
He may say he loves you but considering he's probably still a boy, it can't be "in" love. He can care about you but don't get too deep into it.
Gosh if only I could take back that one mistake of meeting that one lousy lying boy from Louisiana.

Posted: Tue Dec 18, 2007 6:31 pm

tell what your heart goes with. I would pick Boy #1 because he is closer.

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Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 2:02 pm

Long distance sucks.
I know from experience.
Someone will get hurt eventually whether it was intentional or not.
It's really hard to have a relationship with someone who can't be
physically there for you.
I'd go with boy number one.
I have a similar situation.
I've talked to MY boy number 2 about the situation.
And he knows about me liking boy number one.
We both really like each other, but we know that the distance
(amoung other things) is against our relationship.
He knows that I'd chose boy number 1 over him (if the situation ever ocurred) and although he admits he'd be jealous, he told me my happiness was most important.

If your guys really love you, whoever you don't choose will understand.

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