Shoujo Kakumei J-chan
I don't wear a tallis, tzitit or tefillin, at home or anywhere else, because even buying them in my community would probably get me even further ostracized than I already am.
I don't buy myself a tallit or a tallit katan, either. I first take my measurements, then go to the Judaica store and say, "I'd like to buy a tallit katan for someone in my family. These are the measurements -- chest, waist, shoulder width, and height from shoulder to waist. What size should I buy?" No one ever asks, "Is this for a woman?" They may assume it's for a man, but if so, that's not my business. I didn't directly speak an untruth.
