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Posted: Sat Jun 16, 2007 6:53 am
posting in here.
I have a lot of Matt troubles. D:<
Let me give you a short life story between Matt and I.
~Matt and I~ Matt and I first met in homeroom in 7th grade (keep in mind I'm a freshman now). We didn't talk much; I was shy. But when the first semester ended, I learned we would have Tech-Ed together. So Matt and I started bonding and becoming partners in Tech-Ed. We also talked frequently in homeroom and outside of class (IM, events., etc.). When there was about a week of school left, we both really liked each other. He ended up asking me out. I didn't give him an answer right away, however. Even though I like him that much, I was being the responsible one and told him I really liked him, but I just wasn't ready to date anyone. I guess I was scared. So, I ended up breaking his heart and he didn't talk to me for the rest of the summer. I got the courage to talk to him right before 8th grade started, and he became my best guy friend once again, and I his best girl friend. But the problem was, I liked him even more.
So he started liking girls again and going out with them, and I supported his every move. We haven't fought since the summer of going into 8th grade. But now I feel that I don't just like him anymore. I honestly think I love Matt. The way he makes me feel is inexplainable. Recently, I was talking to my friend Abby and she decided to tell Matt how I feel. When she was finished talking to him, I asked her what she said. SHe said it wasn't of my concern.
Wasn't of my concern!? I think it is. But she refused to tell me. So now I have no idea what she had told him. Maybe she didn't even tell him anything. But last night, which was Friday, we all went to our usual hang-out. And he was so...nice to me. He'd smile at me for no apparent reason and was trying to tickle me all night. (Yeah, he never tries to do that.)
He'd be grabbing the spot at my knee where it really tickles, and I laugh and he'd get this huge smile on his face. He even gave me a hug when our friend Greg smashed the table on my pinky finger. (Which is still swollen. -grumble-)
At the end of the night, I usually give him a hug, but he's the one that went for it last night. Oh god, he's such a great hugger. :3 And he was really hugging me tight last night. -swoon-
But I can tell he still likes me as a friend. I remember what it was like when he did like me, and he upped it another level then.
So, that's what I'll be posting about in here a lot of the time. AH, TEENAGERDOM. It's a b***h.
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Posted: Sat Jun 16, 2007 8:34 am
And the man in the back is ready to crack as he raises his hands to the sky... I'm really bad at advise, which is why I still wonder why I bother posting in threads like these. D: Uhm, I guess you have to confront him and ask him where you stand with him. And, uhm, yeah. xD I really suck with advice, did I mention that? ._.
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Posted: Sat Jun 16, 2007 9:33 am
You should talk to him and ask him what he thinks about your relationship with him. Does he want more? Or does he want friendship? Oh, I'm so bad at giving advice.
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Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 8:36 am
:} <3 I'll love you guys even if you give bad advice.
BECAUSE WE ARE ONE BIG HAPPY FAMILY.
-bursts into song-
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Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 11:49 am
do only what dictates your heart. be yourself ever. don't get your pride high in the skies. (most girls do that. unfortunately.) i say you should have still those hang-outs : )
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2007 12:35 am
Get up the courage and tell him that you still like him. :3 It's obvious he still likes you, so give it a shot.
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2007 7:10 am
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Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 7:07 pm
Ah, teenagelove. <3 ( What am I saying that for, I'm 14. xD )
But, I think he still likes YOU. From the way you described how he makes you laugh, and hugs you and cares about you shows some positive signs!
I was really scared when one of my "best guy friends" (so he says, although i can't stand him sometimes xD) asked me out and I said yes. Sadly, he GOT BORED of me. x__X Alright, I won't go into detail with that.
Either way, I think you should tell him you still have feelings for him. If you can't do that, try practicing how you're going to say it, or maybe find someone else to tell him! That's all I got!
Good luck! >w< ( I can tell you love him. By the way you post it and all, it's all so cute! n_n )
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Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 7:03 am
I just think he's scared that maybe I'll reject again.
But I've already explained that to himmmm. D:
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Posted: Thu Jun 21, 2007 11:27 am
At this current moment, is he still going out with another girl? Although not to be rude, if you tell him while he's going out with somebody else, you'll just end up creating a movie scene in real life.
BUT, if he's not going out with anyone else, try to tell him and see my other post in your other thread on how to help yourself out.
You can be blunt and say those three little words, eight letters, without emotion to get them out, but that's not advisable. So, in this situation, don't dictate your heart, let your heart dictate you.
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Posted: Sat Jun 23, 2007 3:05 pm
He could still like you. He might have just changed in the way of how he shows he likes you. smile
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