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I have a friend that has moved in with her "love of her life" and she professes to be Christian. I believe that moving in with a future hubby, that she didn't really like a month ago, is the same as sexual immorality. Now, I have told her this and so much more, but she is soo stuck in the "i want" stage that I think that she has to make a HUGE mistake in order to see that what she is doing is wrong. She grew up in a frazzled childhood, both her parents were drug abusers and crazy heads. She brings this up all the time I tell her what she is doing is wrong, it's like a guilt trip for anyone that comes along, like she enjoys getting pity, which is probably the point. But anyway, I don't know what to do. The Bible says that when one sees a follower of Christ falling you are to talk to him or her one on one. And when she or he refuses to understand, then you bring a "witness" if she still refuses, then you bring her before the congregation and show them what she is doing. HOW do I go about doing this? WHAT do I do, now that she is bitter and stupid towards me? I KNOW I am right and so does she, but she refuses to put down her pride and do what's right. If she does not, I expect her to follow the same emberressing trail that her younger brother is following, she WILL get pregnant, by this guy. I won't even give hima second thought, due to the fact that he is soooo willing to live with her, I doubt that he is a Christian too. SO...what do you guys think I shoud do?