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 Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 2:27 pm
There are two guys: Michael and Scott. I don't know who I like, and who I don't. Whenever I decide I like Michael, I find I really like Scott. When I find I like Scott, I find I like Michael instead. It's like, whoever I"m with I like the other guy. It's not like I can put them both in a room and be like "Oh, well I defiantly rather be here with Michael." because once lives in Washington State (I live in Pennsylvania). Yeah, how we met is a funny story...no, he's not a *****. He might come visit me this summer, my dad is fine with it I just need my mom's consant...(and she hates him).
ANYWAYS. I don't know who I like just as a friend, and who I don't. They're both great guys in their own way, but I might just not like either, or maybe I like both....I can't tell!
I guess what I need help with is, ah, everything? I'll answer questions as needed, I think this is kinda vague for the help I'm asking for .__.
Sincerely,
Mesa
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 2:43 pm
Why are you having to make the choice? To make that distinction? Unless you're actually planning to ask one of them out, it shouldn't be an issue - and a relationship takes a lot of knowledge of your own feelings, so you shouldn't be considering 'choosing' either of them until you know for sure in your heart who you have the stronger feelings for.
It seems like you're worrying over something that isn't an issue at this time? (Not trying to come across rude, though the wording sucks. Sorry!)
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 2:53 pm
What exactly do you need help with? Talking about it might help you to see who you like more, but this is really a bit vague.
Well, if you can't be with one of them without thinking about the other, maybe they're both not really the right one to choose?
Why does your mom hate him? If she has a good reason, it might help with your decision.
Or you could just wait until summer and see how it turns out.
If all fails, there's still the possibilty of making a list. You know, what you like and don't like about one guy, and then the same with the other. Facts are good for this kind of thing.
sorry if this doesn't help, I'm a bit tired.
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 2:56 pm
RaiRai Why are you having to make the choice? To make that distinction? Unless you're actually planning to ask one of them out, it shouldn't be an issue - and a relationship takes a lot of knowledge of your own feelings, so you shouldn't be considering 'choosing' either of them until you know for sure in your heart who you have the stronger feelings for.
It seems like you're worrying over something that isn't an issue at this time? (Not trying to come across rude, though the wording sucks. Sorry!)
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 3:00 pm
Izyria
What exactly do you need help with? Talking about it might help you to see who you like more, but this is really a bit vague.
Well, if you can't be with one of them without thinking about the other, maybe they're both not really the right one to choose?
Why does your mom hate him? If she has a good reason, it might help with your decision.
Or you could just wait until summer and see how it turns out.
If all fails, there's still the possibilty of making a list. You know, what you like and don't like about one guy, and then the same with the other. Facts are good for this kind of thing.
sorry if this doesn't help, I'm a bit tired.
My mom hate's him because I've never actually met him. She won't talk to him, because she doesn't care, and hates him anyways. Her reason is heeded, but I don't take her hatred seriously.
I am making a list, haha, it's not helping...
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 3:09 pm
Your mother might not like this guy who lives far from you because she hasn't had the opportunity to meet him yet. Also, older peoples views of the internet are slanted. When I started dating a guy who lived half way across the world from me, my parents were not supportive. My sister kept saying he could be an axe murderer. Because they don't have a base for their understanding of the situation. Maybe it would be best to have this guy visit, just make sure you do have people with you if you're going to meet him. It's better to be safe than sorry, and I'm assuming you're under 18? So it'll be good just in case it does turn out this guy isn't who he claims he is.
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 4:26 pm
RaiRai Your mother might not like this guy who lives far from you because she hasn't had the opportunity to meet him yet. Also, older peoples views of the internet are slanted. When I started dating a guy who lived half way across the world from me, my parents were not supportive. My sister kept saying he could be an axe murderer. Because they don't have a base for their understanding of the situation. Maybe it would be best to have this guy visit, just make sure you do have people with you if you're going to meet him. It's better to be safe than sorry, and I'm assuming you're under 18? So it'll be good just in case it does turn out this guy isn't who he claims he is.
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 7:23 pm
I know this is not helpful, but Good luck!
Since, your still young you have time to find out which guy or have someone new.
As I said before, "Good luck!"
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Posted: Sun Jun 24, 2007 6:07 pm
you want what you cant have. perhaps that means you dont really truly like either of them. it cant be meant to be if as soon as you get with them you dont find yourself as attracted to them any longer.
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