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 Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 5:55 pm
Ok so my fiance' said he did not want to partisipate in the handfasting ceremony with me because he didnt feel comfertable doing it. Well this angered me because I have agreed to have christian wedding for his sake, yet, I don't want to say anything because I feel like its not my place. Him saying that kinnda hurt me though. Rawry
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Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 6:04 pm
I just want to say thank you so much for this guild and the people in it. I love reading all your post and it gives me this beautiful feeling of togetherness that I cannot find where I live. Thank you so so so much and a special thanks to those o you who have helped me through my trouble. It's such an honor to be a part of this community. I'm seriously deprived of contact with other pagan's. As a matter of fact the day I met a high priestess I started to cry and hugged her. So thank you all so so much! <333
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Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 6:18 pm
I'm so sorry sad *hug* Try explaining to him that it would mean alot to you, and that you're willing to do the christian wedding for him, and whatever makes him uncomfortable you'll explain. If he still says no, then maybe wait until he is and you can do it then? ^_^; And are you comfortable with doing the christian wedding? o-o Don't know why, but I feel like I need to ask, lol. ^_^;;;
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Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 7:26 pm
It's...okay. I mean I'd rather not but I'm not going to protest. I'm comfertable with doing but it means nothing to me.
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Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 7:50 pm
deadly.cary It's...okay. I mean I'd rather not but I'm not going to protest. I'm comfertable with doing but it means nothing to me. If you would rather not, then you shouldn't. I'm sorry, but you have to be completely comfortable and happy with doing it, or it'll just cause problems for you guys... I don't know either of you very well, but I still don't want anyone to be mad at the other. o_o
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Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 8:06 pm
Thank you. I understand. I am not mad at loki, I'm just very sad and dissapointed. I had even wrote the ceremony myself...
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Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 8:45 pm
deadly.cary Thank you. I understand. I am not mad at loki, I'm just very sad and dissapointed. I had even wrote the ceremony myself... Wow... I feel even worse for you. sad You wrote the ceremony, and he's gonna say no? D= I'm sorry, but if I were you, I would have started crying right then and there.
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Posted: Sat May 26, 2007 1:11 pm
trust me it was really hard not to. Oh well. I cant very well force him into this. It wouldnt feel right that way. BTW I love your wings! ^^
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Posted: Sat May 26, 2007 3:45 pm
deadly.cary trust me it was really hard not to. Oh well. I cant very well force him into this. It wouldnt feel right that way. BTW I love your wings! ^^ Yeah, but I'm sure if you talk to him about it a little more, he'll eventually understand how much it means to you. My boyfriend's been wanting to do the handfasting ceremony with him, but we're both 15, so he has to ask my mom and dad first. I told my mom that I would be really nervous about it, and she said, "Well, if you're worried about the 'this lifetime' or 'every lifetime' stuff, just do the year and a half until you can do this lifetime, and work up." But thanks. ^^ I was really surprised that the Spirit Falcons are only 7k-ish. o_o
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Posted: Sat May 26, 2007 5:25 pm
I'm only a little older than you are! ^^
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Posted: Sat May 26, 2007 10:18 pm
deadly.cary I'm only a little older than you are! ^^ x3 Cool! =D His family is really proper, so they talk to my mom and dad about everything before I even know much of what's going on. xD One time he was gonna spend the weekend with me and they came to the terms of "Okay, but they can't sleep in the same bed." We did anyway, but Mom didn't tell on us. xD
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