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 Posted: Mon May 21, 2007 12:36 pm
On this really great girl, her name is Alyssa.
We've been friends for 3 years or so,
But the problem is..
I have a boyfriend, for 1 year&1 month,
But I really like her..
But she lives in Connecticut, one state away from me.
& my mom won't effing let me see her.
mad
Grr.
Dx
I wish I had my own carr.
I'd drive there MYSELF.
& My boyfriend won't drive me there either
cause he's really jealous when i talk about other guys&girls,
and he thinks i would 'cheat' on him, with her/him. ;-;
it's not my fault i have sexual preference to girls than guys, is it?
D:
Any suggestions?
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Posted: Mon May 21, 2007 7:00 pm
Alright, let me get this straight. Your in a relationship with a guy and you find that your attracted to girls rather then guys?
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Posted: Mon May 21, 2007 7:06 pm
Ummm I think I would reevaluate your relationship. Especially if you prefer girls and find yourself more attracted to them, then to your own boyfriend.
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Posted: Tue May 22, 2007 9:24 am
Indeed. I agree with slippin4u . I think you should take ur time and discover urself if u know what I mean. However...distant loves are not so great we could say. But....its not really about Alyssa...Its about ur sexual preference. Do u feel confy with ur boyfriend? Does he know that u may be confused or titled as bisexual? There are lotz of things to think about now do you razz
Make a stop...
think....
ask urself.....
positive sides....
negative side......
conclude......
negotiate.....
DECIDE.
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Posted: Wed May 23, 2007 8:43 pm
ehlayah Alright, let me get this straight. Your in a relationship with a guy and you find that your attracted to girls rather then guys?
Yes, but don't get me wrong, I love him to death..
I just have a small crush on her.. That's all..
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Posted: Wed May 23, 2007 8:43 pm
slipin4u Ummm I think I would reevaluate your relationship. Especially if you prefer girls and find yourself more attracted to them, then to your own boyfriend.
I agree.. But she has troubles of her own.. So I guess we should stay friends.
It seems best..
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Posted: Wed May 23, 2007 8:44 pm
Petares Indeed. I agree with slippin4u . I think you should take ur time and discover urself if u know what I mean. However...distant loves are not so great we could say. But....its not really about Alyssa...Its about ur sexual preference. Do u feel confy with ur boyfriend? Does he know that u may be confused or titled as bisexual? There are lotz of things to think about now do you razz Make a stop... think.... ask urself..... positive sides.... negative side...... conclude...... negotiate..... DECIDE.
Yeah.. I suppose I do have to think about this..
I never thought of it like that..
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Posted: Wed May 23, 2007 10:48 pm
kitsune chii ehlayah Alright, let me get this straight. Your in a relationship with a guy and you find that your attracted to girls rather then guys?
Yes, but don't get me wrong, I love him to death..
I just have a small crush on her.. That's all..
Small crush compared to love? I would wait a while and see if the feelings develop into something more or fade away. Then the choice should be easier.
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Posted: Thu May 24, 2007 7:19 am
kitsune chii ehlayah Alright, let me get this straight. Your in a relationship with a guy and you find that your attracted to girls rather then guys?
Yes, but don't get me wrong, I love him to death..
I just have a small crush on her.. That's all..
Well if you love him to death dont leave him for a inkling of like.
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Posted: Thu May 24, 2007 3:09 pm
kitsune chii slipin4u Ummm I think I would reevaluate your relationship. Especially if you prefer girls and find yourself more attracted to them, then to your own boyfriend.
I agree.. But she has troubles of her own.. So I guess we should stay friends.
It seems best..
Everyone has troubles, that's just part of life. I wouldn't let that hold you back, then again I don't know what the trobles are. But if you're sure you love your boyfriend, don't give him up for someone that you like. That reminds me of the saying... "Don't give up the one you love for the one you like, becuase the one you like will give you up for the one they love."
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Posted: Thu May 24, 2007 3:30 pm
slipin4u kitsune chii slipin4u Ummm I think I would reevaluate your relationship. Especially if you prefer girls and find yourself more attracted to them, then to your own boyfriend.
I agree.. But she has troubles of her own.. So I guess we should stay friends.
It seems best..
Everyone has troubles, that's just part of life. I wouldn't let that hold you back, then again I don't know what the trobles are. But if you're sure you love your boyfriend, don't give him up for someone that you like. That reminds me of the saying... "Don't give up the one you love for the one you like, becuase the one you like will give you up for the one they love."
Me and her are better off as friends.
Well, she wants her girlfriend back from his boy she doesnt like..
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