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I don't really know why I am asking because I rarely listen to people's advice and I will most likely come up with my own decision. still:

What are the chances that God would bless the marraige of a Christian to an Athiest?

I am a pk who is in love with a nonbeliever. I am not trying to convert him, I don't beleive in that sort of evangelism. He is not trying to convert me, he doesn't believe in changing people to fit you.

My father has thrown me many verses from the bible about why Christians should not marry nonbelievers. My entire family is against it. Personally I cannot see myself marrying a Christian because I find many of them to be judgemental, picky and hypocritcal (myself definitely included).

Well, I have called it quits with this guy many times and I have not been his gf for four months.(I always break up with him on the grounds that I cannot imagine a peaceful future with him because of our religious and political differences). Still I wonder why so many pieces of our lives seem to fit. It is hard for me to consider that an angel is not directing the two of us together... but then is it an angel of light or darkness?

so, any ideas ^_^

Just make sure that they respect your faith and won't hinder your walk with God.

Its not always true that you can't date a non-believer, but always put God first so if you discover that your relationship with that person is tearing you away from God, then you need to end the relationship. The other thing to consider is that over time you could convert him just be seeing your example. If that is the case you need to make sure you are following the path of Christ with your full heart and your all (which should be done anyways). Make sure you keep praying about it, God will guide you in the right direction.