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Posted: Wed May 09, 2007 6:33 am
Recently I have had a HUGE urge for a baby. Not like "ooh, having a baby would be lovely" but almost obsessive, I have a pregnant friend and I'm starting to dislike her out of jealousy and I'm nearly brought to tears when I see pregnant women when I'm not. I'm only 16 (17 in a few months) and I know I'm way too young, but that's what makes it stranger because I shouldn't be wanting a baby like this when I'm this young. Am I odd or do lots of girls get this obsession for a baby?
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Posted: Wed May 09, 2007 12:10 pm
That's not odd in my opinion. I think there are many girls like that.
I don't think it is a problem unless you get so blinded by that desire that you get pregnant before you can give the baby what it needs out of selfishness. If you don't get to that point, then no harm done.
You can use this time and interest to look into things like child development if you want. That way you'll be more prepared when you are able to give a baby everything it needs.
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Posted: Wed May 09, 2007 11:02 pm
I think it's perfectly normal... and it's fine as long as you don't go out and try and make that happen as I'm sure you are ill prepared to raise a child right now. Perhaps you can focus on raising a puppy/kitty/any sort of pet or try your hand at babysitting to sort of fulfill the need in the meantime.
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Posted: Wed May 30, 2007 4:15 pm
You are not weird at all. I'm fifteen, and I want a baby. It's fine unless you are trying to get pregnant. Sixteen is a bit young to have a child.
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