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Amora DeFay

PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 4:13 am


Adam Issac Nagali
Damn i hate it but im falling for my best friend. But he is strait *sighs* It realy sucks, so i hide my feeligns. Has any one ever been through this?

((Im not a member of this guild yet, but im waiting to be accepted so i hope its allright to make a post))


Okay I don't know if it is to late to post this or not, but I am going to anyways. I have been having the same problem for 3 years. I too have fallen for my best friend. There are just a couple of problems. We are both taken by the 2 greatest guys out there for us. And she is straight. I haven't ever gotten up the courage to tell her how I feel because we are so close we actually kiss and joke around alot by touching eachother, but just by grabbing. Its pretty funny. But when I first came out to her, she said jokingly 'As long as you don't fall for me, we will be all good! That would just be weird.' I know she meant it as a joke, but at the time, I was like, 'Okay can't tell her how I feel. Then I might loose her as a friend.' So I haven't told her. But what I think you should do is try and talk to your friend. Tell him how you feel and tell him its not your fault you feel that way. And personally, if he doesn't want to be your friend because of something you can't control, then I think that he isn't a very good friend. But if you tell him, and he's like its cool but no, I think thats better than him saying we can't be friends because you like me. Hope this helps.
PostPosted: Mon May 26, 2008 12:26 am


Hmm.. 've had a crush on my best friend for nearly a year now.. We've made out and he's let me touch his p***s.. But.. He's straight xD
And I have a great boyfriend now.. So.. I'm pretty much over him.
Sorry.. This doesn't really help..

But, I did tell him that I liked him a lot... And he was completely cool with it. If they are you're true friend they should be.. So.. Remember that.

Nyt of the Moon


green_collection

PostPosted: Mon May 25, 2009 2:13 pm


i had really strong feelings for my best friend who has a boyfriend for a REAL long time but i just admitted it recently. i confessed to her via instant messaging and she was touched but she said it was impossible for her to feel the same way. it was really hard but nothings changed and she still cares about me. i told her i only care about her as a best friend but i guess i said that just to make sure our friendship was there emo
if i didnt say that, our friendship would still have been the same.
i think you should confess if you do have strong feelings. you never know what happens but prepare for the worst just in case. you dont want to fall hard if such thing happens.
i dont know what to do from that point tho. even though she said it was impossible i still love her. what now? neutral
PostPosted: Sun Jun 14, 2009 9:35 am


oh, man!
i know how you feel.
i had the biggest crush on my girl best friend for like a year and a half.
unfortunately, she's straight, too... ):
i think that's why i get along better with guys. i don't have to worry about crushing on them.
 

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 1:13 pm


it does suck you get really close but they cant tell
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