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Proudly_Jewish

PostPosted: Sun Apr 15, 2007 4:37 pm


I have difficulty being around other people. Being around a few people doesn't usually bother me at all, unless those few people are either making alot of noise or they're all staring at me. But if I'm in a large crowd enclosed within a certain space, I go nuts. I get nervous and neasous (sp?) like hell.

I generally avoid school dances for this very reason. Once, though, in 7th grade, we were on an overnight field trip and on one of the nights, the teachers basically forced us all to go to a dance and would not let anybody go to bed early. When the dance had just started, I felt a bit nervous and uncomfortable. 2 hours later, I was sitting in a corner by myself with a a huge headache, crying because I couldn't stand to be enclosed in a room with so many people and so much noise. I nearly vomitted.

Another thing too, is that I HAVE to be alone sometimes. Whenever I go to summer camp, for example, I can be around the other kids for most of the day, but there has to be at least 1-2 or so hours in the day where I'm left completely alone in a quiet place. Otherwise I start to get nervous, dizzy, and uncomfortable again. The same applies at school - I have friends and can bear being in a classroom with 30 other kids, but at lunch I usually look for a quiet place to eat alone because I get uncomfortable otherwise.

Does anyone other than me experience this, or am I just a complete freak? Is there a name for this?
PostPosted: Sun Apr 15, 2007 7:13 pm


I am the same way. Some people love being around people, other people hate it. No big deal. Everyone's different.

LorienLlewellyn

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Savina

PostPosted: Wed Apr 25, 2007 8:30 pm


What you describe actually sounds a little more severe than just the normal liking people vs. not liking people.
If it actually causes you severe anxiety, physical reactions, etc, you should talk to a counselor.
Also, look up agoraphobia.
PostPosted: Fri May 04, 2007 5:17 am


And whats the difference between this/Agorophobia and AntiSocial disorder?

Aleksandr Dyatlov


LorienLlewellyn

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PostPosted: Fri May 04, 2007 12:31 pm


Takashi Ookami
And whats the difference between this/Agorophobia and AntiSocial disorder?


Antisocial disorder is very serious. It is a psychiatric condition characterized by chronic behavior, often illegal, that manipulates and violates other people. To be diagnosed with this, the person has to show that similar behavior is a pattern dating all of the way back into childhood. These people were often cruel to animals in childhood and their teens. They are also often fire-setters. These people are often diagnosed with conduct disorder as a child. They have no guilt, they lie, cheat, steal, do not care about the safety of other living things, and often abuse drugs.

Agoraphobia is a fear. "Phobia" means fear, so anytime you see a word with that attached to the end, you know it is the fear of something. Agoraphobia is the fear of being in crowds or of being outside alone. People with agoraphobia often have panic disorder as well or other severe phobias. The fear is often so bad that the person literally never leaves their house and cannot go to work. It is seen in more women than men and often surfaces when the person is in their 20's. Therapy can be used to treat it.

Agoraphobia is not to be confused with introversion. Roughly 25% of people would be called introverts. Introverts are people who need to be alone at least a few hours a day. They prefer quiet. If other people are around, they usually prefer it to be just a close friend or two with quite discussion. They tend to avoid large parties. People often misunderstand them and try to drag them out into large social gatherings and then wonder why they are uncomfortable, nervous, or rude. Introversion is not a mental disorder of any kind, however. It is a personality type. The other 75% of the population are extroverts. These are people who do not like being alone. They feel sluggish, bored, and drained when alone, but energized in a group or large party, while introverts are the exact opposite.

I am an introvert. It sounds like our original poster is too. Now, there's nothing wrong with that. Like I said, it's just a personality type. It isn't a personality disorder or anything like that. It sounds like she might be right on the line between being an extreme introvert and showing some agoraphobia. I am actually exactly like her, but I don't say that I have agoraphobia since I am still able to do things like hold a job or go to the mall with someone. So it has not really interfered with my life or given me problems in any way. She'll have to decide if it is interfering with her life. Agoraphobia can be improved with therapy, but introversion is usually forever, so she'll probably never be too different than she is now. Therapy might help her to relax a little so that she does not have such severe physical reactions though.
PostPosted: Fri May 18, 2007 11:35 am


I know how you feel sweetie! I don't like to be around a lot of people myself. It's a comfort thing that you're dealing with. Try to be more spontaneous in meeting people and you will feel a lot better.

Murokui


Princesa en Amor

PostPosted: Thu Oct 25, 2007 6:15 pm


im like that. im antisocial. and yeah i have a word for it but i cant think of wut it is. i have it on my myspace.
as one of my fears. lol
biggrin
so like yeah ur normal
[[well maybe sweatdrop ]]
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