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 Posted: Fri Apr 13, 2007 8:45 pm
So i've done enough absolutely outrageous things to know how my parents react to my... outrageous behavior...
i guess...
Anyway my mom asked me a few weeks ago if i was gay and i said no... so she asked me if i was bi and well i can't lie to her so i said yes...
she doesn't beleive in bisexuality... so it was kind of hard for her t comprehend my feelings but she was okay with it.
Anyway... my mom when she find something like that out about me it's question after question after question...
maybe... 4 weeks have gone by now and she hasn't said a WORD about it since that day
I'm usually frustrated when she asks questions like that... but i'm mgetting worried...
maybe somethings wrong... lol i don't know.
I kind of want to talk to her about it but i don't really know how to approach it because i don't know how she feels about it
stressed
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Posted: Fri Apr 13, 2007 10:39 pm
You can always start a conversation about it sometime when its just the two of you. Just something like 'Hey mom, I remember you said you don't believe in Bisexuallity, why?' Or so fouth. Try to ease into a conversation about it. Or just tell her that her keeping the topic to herself is bothering you and you'd like to talk about it.
Simple is usually the best.
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Posted: Sat Apr 14, 2007 4:36 pm
no it's not about why she doesn't believe in bisexuality i know why.
I want to talk to her about my sexuality and her feelings about it...
My mother confuses me. wink
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Posted: Sun Apr 15, 2007 6:17 am
When I told my mom I was a lesbian, I got the same feelings. Sometimes I still do.. like she disapproves or it bothers her for me to talk about other girls like I "should" be talking about other guys. But then I ask her if it's bothering her and that I feel that it's bothering her and she'll reassure me.
Her not talking about it could be a sign that she just needs some time to soak in the news before she can hold conversations with you about that kind of stuff. After a week or two ask her about how she's feeling. Tell her you're worried about how she feels about it.
It's important to keep lines of communication open.
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Posted: Sun Apr 15, 2007 9:10 pm
I mean this was like 2 months ago...
she hasn't asked a single question or anything.
It's just not like her usual behavior.
I'll talk to her about it in a few weeks.
The thing is is that i wans't ready for them to know and i'm still not really ready for... them... to know...
uugh.
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Posted: Mon Apr 16, 2007 8:12 am
Ask her how she feels, straight up, is what I'd say. To me, it sounds like she actually just accepts it, and doesn't wish to delve deeper into your sexuality.
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Posted: Mon Apr 16, 2007 4:50 pm
Karnell Ask her how she feels, straight up, is what I'd say. To me, it sounds like she actually just accepts it, and doesn't wish to delve deeper into your sexuality. well after todays events i guess ill have to... lol. i have a new post on here that explains everything
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