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Hm, I didn't really come out of anything since the minute I realized I was gay it was just as if I came to know that I wore different socks than those I thought I had on, no big deal about it. I've always been attracted to guys, but never realized it and randomly fell in love with girls. I did think about it twice or thrice when I was younger, but at that time I just couldn't picture myself having a boyfriend. Not that I had trouble with it, I was supportive to gays and whatsoever, but I didn't feel it was me. And at some point I met a guy on the net, and the moment I felt I loved him it was like a big ray of light surrounded me and clarified everything. I still don't mind who the other is as long as there's love: boy, girl, white, black, religious or not, whatever; I'm just more into boys and searching for a boyfriend (I have no more). Maybe I'll find something else on the way, but I'm staying like that, at the time I actually had a boyfriend I just randomly told my mother, and who wanted to hear it. I won't go, like, YO I'M GAY!!! But I won't hide it either. It's just part of me n_n All of my friends know (or well they should), and random people too. My grandparents haven't asked anything about it yet and I think it's better that way, my parents were supportive but the elders have a bit more narrow of a mind, so as long as I don't have a bf to present them and they ask nothing, I guess it'll stay this way: not hiding but not rushing. But I want a bf domokun

I don't think it's something "special" or anything to have a different orientation, it's part of the person like races. There's no shame nor pride to have with that, it's just something else. It's like the color of the hair, people shouldn't make all that fuss about it. I wear a rainbow wristband, yeah. Though it's not because I'm proud of anything, or that I absolutely have to tell the world that I'm gay. It's just for, in the case I meet another gay, and there's a relation possible, THIS one will know. Just to make it easier. n_n

I think everyone should stop fighting around that and just tag along. There's no big deal with eing gay or not, it's just different. Some stay in their closet because they're afraid of the others' judgement, but some live in an environment that make it almost dangerous for gays to exist. As long as you're comfortable in your situation, I don't think there's a best one, in or out of the closet. But don't hurt yourself with that. Stay yourself no matter what n_n

But then again, people will fit us into stereotypes and close their minds. Gays are girly sex addicts that want their asses spread opened by muscular hairy hunks, or stuff like that. Come on. Some, maybe, are like that, tastes can't be judged. But it's not because one likes guys that he's everything your neighbour was -_-;

...Anyhow, I'll stop with my ranting now and wish you all a Merry Christmas n____n <3

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I think we should all run a big hug rampage around the world 3nodding