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 Posted: Sun Apr 01, 2007 7:22 pm
 I having a really hard time coming out of the closet. I've known I was bi-sexual since ninth grade. I cannot tell my parents or anyone related to me. The only people I told were my closet friends. Also my feelings towards boys have faded. I seem to not even be attracted to them anymore. Its a little scary to me and I'm afraid what reaction people will have. I don't know what to do anymore. I am now in 12th grade and I've kind of decided to come out after high school, but then I'm afraid my parents won't support me for college.
I'm so stressed because of this. It hurts me to hide my feelings.
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Posted: Wed Apr 11, 2007 12:16 pm
It wasn't easy for me either. I guess it's always scary not knowing whether or not one thing you tell somebody is going to make them not want to be friends with you anymore. But that has to make you wonder, if they can't accept you for who you are, are they really your friends? I lucked out, many of my friends aren't straight, and the ones that are don't care. As for your family, you may never be able to tell them and that hurts. I know I'll never be able to tell my dad that I'm bi. All I can say is that you need to go to your friends for support and tell them how you really feel. That's the most important part.
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Posted: Mon Apr 16, 2007 11:41 am
Hey Rain. This is a tough decision. I don't even know what to tell you. When my cousin came out to her mom me and my spouse where there when she told her. It helped for her to have freinds and family who supported her already there with her when she told her mom.
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 4:33 pm
you should come out of the closet when you feel 100% sure about what you are doing. if you are afraid your folks won't pay for your college then stay in the closet. It's better to have a college degree than being out and working at mcdonnalds for the rest of your life.
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Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 12:33 pm
I admit not many people know im bi exept one and I dont know how to tell my family. i have tried telling my brother with me saying it disguised as a joke and I just cant. eventually they will find out but for now i cant. my advice would be to continue on with your life and when you are in a more stable position come out if it is what you wish.
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