It shouldn't matter about weight. I like to live by this. "If a guy or girl doesn't like you for exactly who you are, for all your positives and negatives then ******** 'em your too good for them anyways." Weight is one thing that shouldn't matter in a relationship. For big or for small that is extremly unimportant in a relationship. The mayjor reason bigger girls have an easier time getting dates in college is guys start caring less about physical looks and more about the suff that counts. Personality. For instance I like dorky girls, preferably ones that aren't as stupid as three week old bread. So chin up you'll find a guy or girl who thinks you are the most awesome person in the world, just takes time.