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PostPosted: Fri Mar 30, 2007 1:36 am


Okay, so I joined the guild because I needed information about pregnancy.
I'm not the one who's pregnant but my sister is and she's younger then me and can't get on the computer because our parents are strict.
It also helps that I'm a college student and so I have my own personal labtop.
Anyways though.
She's only fifteen and she's always been on the wild side. And she's really small and athletic.
I know she's been sleeping around with guys since the age of thirteen and it's been really hard to deal with because I'm the one she confides in about it due to my status of being a youth leader.
I know I should tell our parents, but I'm unsure as to if I should because she's claiming that it was rape. But yet I'm not sure who to believe.
The guy who did it is the one that she's been with for more then three months now and I know they've had consensual sex up until now so...it's really hard to call.
But she's three months along and she's started getting a bigger hump that she won't be able to hide for much longer.
We don't know what to do.
I know we should probably go to a doctor about how she should be eating.
But can ayone give advice on how we might be able to tell our parents?
Cause they're really strict on with their religious beliefs and their morals.
I don't want to see her get hurt by this at all because our father used to have an abusive tendency while he was drunk.
So what should we do?
We really need help.
PostPosted: Fri Mar 30, 2007 9:56 pm


I am sorry about your situation. I'm thinking maybe you could talk to someone in your family that you are close to, or if you're not able to do that then you really should take your mother off to the side and tell her the story. But before you tell her what is going on, ask her to be open minded and not to over react. I know that she'll be upset, but in order not to push your sister away she's going to have to be open with the stituation. It's going to suck b/c she's going to have to tell your father sometime.

Has your sister figured out what she's going to do with the baby? Is she going to keep it, give it up for adoption, or abortion? Is her partner in which she says that he "raped" her and they also had consitual sex going to stick by her? Does he even know?

Karasuaki


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 6:34 pm


It sounds like even though it's scary to tell your parents, you NEED to tell them.

If she's three months along, pretty soon she can't hide it anymore and actually will have to face the reality of the situation. It's not like being pregnant usually can just go away.

Also, if she decides she wants to birth the baby (not neccesarily to keep, but maybe to put up for adoption) she needs to be getting OB care RIGHT NOW. There's a million things they've checked on, told you, tested, etc by this point in her pregnancy that she's not getting.

If she's willing to have sex, she needs to be willing to deal with the result.
PostPosted: Tue Apr 03, 2007 8:24 am


Well, how old are these guys having sex with her? I can't believe a 13-15 year old is having sex (and I'm going to venture that they are older) and no one is pursuing statutory rape? It doesn't matter if she "consented," I'd look into your state laws.

Unfortunately, this is the scary part, but your parents NEED to be told. It's not fair to her health or the baby (regardless of her decision she will make). She needs medical care, most states she is past the point of abortion dates without special cases. That's why she needs to get to an OB ASAP to find out the gestation.

It's scary and she may get mad, but please tell your parents, her health and well being is much more important.

lunashock

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