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`Clu3L3sS

PostPosted: Thu Mar 22, 2007 6:37 pm


Well the title says it all, here we go. There's this guy and I've gone out with him twice and, each time we got more serious. We told each other we loved each other. We picked out what we were going to wear when we got married. We both wanted kids so we went out and picked names. We said we'd be together forever, and no matter what happened we were meant to be together forever. And we meant it, I know we did. This Friday I'm supposed to see him. For the record were both single. I'm already nervous just thinking about it. I really want to go back out with him, but my friends think it might be a mistake but then again they don't know him like I do. Please tell me what you think about the situation. sweatdrop
PostPosted: Fri Mar 23, 2007 5:22 pm


3rd time's the charm, but I wouldn't try again if it doesn't work out this time. Your friends should be supportive of you but ready to catch you if you fall. I have a friend, well we are in the same circle but we are not all that close, she is dating this guy but her two best friends are completely against it. He is really sweet, in a sort of bad boy way, but would never hurt and really cares about her. But everyone views him as a pot head becasue he got introuble a few years ago for that. Her two BFFs said that she had to choose between them or her which was just horrible, but almost everyone else in our circle supports her on the matter, not her BFFs.

To get back to my point, try it again and don't let you friends opinions change how you view this guy. If you think it's right then go for it.

(But be prepared for an 'I told you so' if it doesn't work)

Book_Queen


`Clu3L3sS

PostPosted: Fri Mar 23, 2007 6:29 pm


Anybody else got an opinion on the matter? PLEASE! sweatdrop
PostPosted: Fri Mar 30, 2007 8:05 pm


I agree with Book_Queen. Third time usually is the charm. Go for it one last time - MAKE it work.

But if things just don't click, let it be the end. The relationship was not meant to be.

Tell your friends that they should be supportive of you. You're going to have one last shot and you'd like their support whether it works or falls flat. If you have your friends support, you'll go into the relationship more relaxed then you would if they continued to be against it.

Hope this helps.

Chime Elf

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