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 Posted: Thu Mar 15, 2007 12:41 am
Yeah so I'm 'banned' for sticking up for Orochimaru now. I told someone to screw off since they posted on a serious thread I made saying "Orochimaru is scarey so I hope he dies". Without a thought to anyone or anything, she said that. I KNOW my original post for the thread was harsh, and I toned it to level down and cool off, but I don't feel I did anything wrong AT ALL since all I said was "screw off", and that it wasn't for not liking him for no reason.
I won't be back there, which is a shame, seeing as I really did post a damn aweful lot when not many people did. Not to mention it's where I like to post all my findings and randomness from Japanese sites. Tell others you know there they'll have to find in my Otogakure Guild (click my siggy). I'll make a subforum for Other Naruto pairs and things. Goddamn, my hands are shaking right now I am so mad about this.
And whatever crap about it happening before, I know I have been harsh before but this is different. I never snapped back at anyone who commented on my original anti-Sasuke thread, instead I changed it so it didn't offend anyone. I was offended by a careless remark like that, and I get banned. Well screw that. She'd "consider" letting me back in two weeks. There's nothing to consider. I don't take lightly to being insulted.
No need to post back, this is just to let people know where they can find me.
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Posted: Thu Mar 15, 2007 1:35 am
Okay, seriously, there is more reasons then just that that you're getting banned. I mean, I know Chieira and Rose Koneko have warned you about it before, and I, myself, have seen you around both that guild and other guilds, and I've seen the way you speak to people, and I know very well that if it had been NOTHING, they wouldn't have said something about it.
Knowing Chieira personally, I know that she wouldn't have banned you for no reason, and I did read that thread there, where you told the other person (who ALSO received a warning for character bashing) the 'Screw off', and I saw what they said in the first place, which, I believe, was something along the lines of 'something about that guy creeps me out and makes me want to kill him' And yes, her comment didn't exactly please me, as Orochimaru is also my favourite character, I would never have told her to 'screw off'.
I'm sure you remember what we said to you when you began to bash Sasuke, and if you don't, I can always re-paste it here for you too, but none of us ever told you to screw off for your closed-mindedness. Not saying that none of us never wanted to say it to you, but we didn't. Because it would have been inappropriate, and against our own rules.
Instead of dealing with this in a logical, mature manner, you decided to take offense for the fact that the owner of the guild found your response to be inappropriate (as it was) and took the course of action you have previously been warned of.
In addition, I would like to point out that Chieira was very civil in her message to you informing you of the disciplinary action being taken, and in return, you offered her none of that same respect. So honestly, the person that should be offended here is her. Not you. I saw the PM she sent you, and she didn't say she's 'consider' letting you back into the guild. She said, and I quote: 'However, since this is not your first offense, I'm going to have to put you on a temporary ban from the guild for a period of two weeks. After that time is up, if you still want to, you will be welcome to rejoin the guild, but further violations will probably, unfortunately, result in a permanent ban. ' And, in fact, the second time she PMed you back, she asked for you to reconsider coming back after your two week ban was up. So if you honestly can't handle being put up to the standards of everyone else in the guild... then why do you bother even joining guilds at all? My only advice would be to stop holding yourself above everyone else. It tends to get irritating.
((Also, the whole posting your anger in a separate guild? Very much of the seventh grade kind of behaviour. you might want to get over that sometime soon.))
~Lyndsay
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Posted: Thu Mar 15, 2007 2:19 am
Selenai ((Also, the whole posting your anger in a separate guild? Very much of the seventh grade kind of behaviour. you might want to get over that sometime soon.)) ~Lyndsay Get over yourself. I even said that no one should reply, this was so that people could find me and explaining. I'm not going to banter like a child, like you're trying to start. And if you had read, I said I knew I was out of line when I posted about Sasuke, so I fixed it, and I wouldn't have blamed other if they HAD snapped at me. talk2hand Chi-san was very polite, yes. I just don't deal with people who can't deal with me. If she had said something to me, or if the girl had been upset, I would have changed or dealt with it otherwise. Adults deal with harsh comments and other such things, and while I highly understand the concept of being polite, which I try to be, there are times at which I say things I don't mean or over react just like everyone else. Whoever here IS a mod, please lock this thread. This is just so people can find me, and explaining, as I said above.
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Posted: Thu Mar 15, 2007 11:51 am
x_LoveObject_x Selenai ((Also, the whole posting your anger in a separate guild? Very much of the seventh grade kind of behaviour. you might want to get over that sometime soon.)) ~Lyndsay Get over yourself. I even said that no one should reply, this was so that people could find me and explaining. I'm not going to banter like a child, like you're trying to start. And if you had read, I said I knew I was out of line when I posted about Sasuke, so I fixed it, and I wouldn't have blamed other if they HAD snapped at me. talk2hand Chi-san was very polite, yes. I just don't deal with people who can't deal with me. If she had said something to me, or if the girl had been upset, I would have changed or dealt with it otherwise. Adults deal with harsh comments and other such things, and while I highly understand the concept of being polite, which I try to be, there are times at which I say things I don't mean or over react just like everyone else. Whoever here IS a mod, please lock this thread. This is just so people can find me, and explaining, as I said above. The fact of the matter is, if you just wanted to tell people where you were, you could have done so without including a rant on your banning. THAT is what Selenai was reacting to. "I have been temporarily banned from Naruto Yaoi Polls, and you can find me in the Oto guild. PM me for more details." would have sufficed nicely, if your true purpose was to let people know where you would be. Instead, you posted a rant on your banning along with your explanation. No, it could not have been dealt with otherwise, considering the circumstances. You broke a rule after having SEVERAL warnings, and eventually action has to be taken; the rules are rather clear about that. I'm sorry that you have reacted so badly to a simple two week banning, but I don't know what else to tell you. ^^; I honestly would like to discuss this further with you, since I was sad to hear that such a frequent poster is leaving permanently. It was a hard decision for me to even temporarily ban you, but in the end it came down to the fact that Rose and I had already given you more chances than we would anyone else, and at some point we have to actually uphold our own rules. This thread will now be locked, because I honestly don't think this should have been dragged into another guild in the first place. I'll probably move it to the Chatterbox subforum, too, because I don't think that it belongs in this forum, anyway (I know we locked several threads months ago where members posted saying that they would be gone for a while, so that's why I say that ^^; ). Anyway, if you want to discuss this further, feel free to PM me or Rose.
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