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does anyone else have a problem w/ their friends constantly bringing them down?...I have this friend who always talks about everything bad that I do...even if it's not my fault...like depression...I've tried to become happier...but part of the reason that I'm not is because she keeps on saying how depressed I always am...I just don't understand it...and she's the one that talked me into becoming christian...yeah...I wasn't a christian until the end of last july

hey its there falt it seems to me like no matter what you do they are unhappy. Dont go and change yourself for them because maybe thats not the right group of poeple for ya. i am guilty of this too but i try to change to whatever makes the majority happy, but i have put a stop to it. I used to like whatever bands my friends liked just because they liked them...not anymore. Now i listen to whatever i want to and i dont care what they think. just be yourself and stop trying to please everyone. sometimes its so easy to say something like this to someone else but when it comes down to it i struggle realy, really hard with it.