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 Posted: Thu Mar 08, 2007 7:33 pm
So my boyfriend fingered me for the first time, and after a while I started like shaking like I had no control over my body. It felt so good, I can't even explain how good. But it was liking causing this overwhelming build up of sexual tension that would just never release. Eventually I had to get him to stop cause all I could think about was having sex with him and I don't believe in having sex unless you would be able to handle having kids. Plus I had this huge build up of sexual tension, and the shaking just kept going if he kept going. Is this an orgasm? If not does anyone know why I'm not orgasming, or a way that I could orgasm? Just cause this sexual tension bites.
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Posted: Thu Mar 08, 2007 9:10 pm
It sounds like you might have been close to orgasm. You could have him bring you to orgasm manually, you could use mutual masturbation, masturbation after he leaves, or oral sex. It isn't unusual to not have an orgasm your first time doing something.
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Posted: Fri Mar 09, 2007 8:25 am
I think too many people focus on Did I orgasm?! If it felt good, go with it. Don't overanalyze it! What describes an orgasm to one woman, may just be nothing to another woman. That's the beauty of being a woman, we're all very different when it comes to pleasure.
Although if you don't want to have intercourse, go with the suggestions Lorien gave.
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Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 12:54 pm
I think that would be considered an orgasm. I'm not too sure about the definition of one myself, but I remember hearing that the technical definition had to do with the involuntary contractions of the v****a. Your boyfriend could probably tell if that started to happen while he had his fingers in you.
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