http://community.livejournal.com/japanese/If you have a question, these guys have answers. Very helpful and knowledgeable.
http://www.jcch.com/index.htmThey have an osaka matsuri in spring and stuff. The Japanese community in Hawaii is immense, so this probably isn't the only society out there.
http://www.worldramen.net/Tokyo/tokyotop.htmlBecause ramen is delicious. This site makes it sound much more complicated than it is though.
http://www.colorado.edu/ealld/atj/What I really need is an association of teachers of english.
crying Actually, I really don't want to be an english teacher.
http://www.quirkyjapan.or.tv/Cool places to go and things to do in Japan.