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the90sweregoodtome

PostPosted: Thu Feb 22, 2007 2:58 pm


this is a question that most guys want answered in other words plz tell me
PostPosted: Fri Feb 23, 2007 3:06 pm


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Depends on the girl


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MissTressy

PostPosted: Wed Feb 28, 2007 11:52 am


The best thing to do is not run your mouth too much and act like you don't give a rats a**.

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 03, 2007 2:51 pm


64 girls like and I still don't know why.
Scientists believe male's sweat attracts a female's harmone. In other words, when boys sweat girls like that. Also the smell of guys is one thing. Sweat is a smell a girl likes in between. Aftershave is a great smell.


Neko's sister knows best advice: USE AXE!!!

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Jac E.

PostPosted: Sun Mar 04, 2007 3:18 am


Well, Axe is not the only thing. rofl

Among respectable women (and by respectable, I mean self-respecting and respecting of others), the most handsome, attractive of men is a Prince among men.

-A Prince takes responsibility - that includes work, school and children. (Do well in school - it really is attractive.)
-He understands why those ads for beer are offensive (and you know what I'm talking about).
-A Prince NEVER takes women for granted - for example, he never expects us to do all the laundry/cooking/etc..
-A Prince does NOT assume that women are incapable of anything - especially small things, like changing flat tires.
-He offers encouragement, not advice.
-And last but not least, a Prince knows what he knows, and knows what he does not know. He does not b.s. his way through anything, and realizes just how attractive it is to say "I don't know."

Now THAT, my friend, is the most attractive man.
PostPosted: Mon Mar 05, 2007 8:49 am


My advice would be - learn who you truly are, accept yourself, and BE yourself. You will then attract girls who also know who they truly are, accept themselves, and BE themselves. That doesn't mean being an a** and saying "Oh, take me as I am", it means really learning and accepting the essence of you who really are.

My advice is based on far too many relationships (I'm 34, started dating at 13), and a twelve year failed marriage. When we separated, I found out that my husband had lied to me about everything, his education, his work, his income, his friends, his likes and dislikes, his debts, everything. I never knew him, and just how real is a relationship with a fake person?

So don't worry so much about attracting "girls" and focus on finding the girl who matches YOU. (And, yes, as Jac E. says, she'll expect you to be responsible, decent, respectable, etc.)


Jac E. - I'll have to differ with you on something. My man can freely assume that I don't know how to change a flat tire. He takes care of all car-related stuff, including clearing off the snow and ice. smile However, in our relationship, I *do* the laundry and cooking quite happily - as long as he shows me appreciation and respect. Perhaps you could say that a Prince never assumes ...

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Jac E.

PostPosted: Tue Mar 06, 2007 9:05 am


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Jac E. - I'll have to differ with you on something. My man can freely assume that I don't know how to change a flat tire. He takes care of all car-related stuff, including clearing off the snow and ice. smile However, in our relationship, I *do* the laundry and cooking quite happily - as long as he shows me appreciation and respect. Perhaps you could say that a Prince never assumes ...


That's exactly what I meant. You put that much better than I did. Kudos mrgreen
PostPosted: Wed Mar 14, 2007 8:08 pm


Based on experience, I personally think that it's better to tell the truth and give her the attention she needs.

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 30, 2007 1:37 am


Apart from all that has ben said - and said well! - I would encourage you to bathe regularly smile
no, seriously - first impressions are important! being a fantastic person will sadly not get you far in the beginning (speaking from experience here...), you have to make a positive first expression smile
I can't tell you what "girls" like - only what I look(ed) for...

- even if he goes for a ruggedly handsom look (wich I like), he has to be well groomed. I look at hands - clean, smooth hands with cut fingernails are a turn on smile

- dress apropriately. I dont mind guys wearing whatever they want, sometimes it can be cute to look out of place (like a puppy in the rain), but shorts and t-shirt for a classical concert in an opra house = not good. Don't overdo it, either - Iif you don't feel well in a cut, don't wear it! She will cerainly notice.

- "Funny" noises, exclamations etc. ("Wassuuuuuuup" and the like) = not a good way of greating a girl

- Manners. Sounds oldfashioned, but manners will get you further than you think. As with everything else - don't overdo it! Holding the door is nice, but dont make her feel disabled by doing everything for her all the time (gets boring, too)

If you are just looking around and aren't madly in love yet, look around in your own peer group. If you have similar interests, the first date wil not be as awkward if you have something to talk about.
If you fall for someone that doesn't have a lot in common with you, try to share her interests for a bit. You will get to know her better AND you look like you areserious about it.

DO NOT EVER
- Pretend to be someone you're not
- lie to her about where you are/what you do
- tell her she's fat/ugly/looks bad, even if you are breaking up with her
- tell her she's boring
- talk bad about her parents, even if she hates them. we might hate them, but we sure don't like it when you say something bad about them

DO
- bring flowers for her mom when invited - its very old fashioned, but extremely cute and we moms like that
- treat her like the wonderful person she is
- break up in a nice way - if it doesn' last, dont shame yourself by doing something ugly

this is NOT a complete list - just my 2 cents from the top of my head
PostPosted: Sat Mar 31, 2007 1:32 pm


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She dreams.....

I find it easiest to act like only I can. You know, be me, and not what girls want.

There is always someone out there who likes you just the way you are.

so I figure why try and impress them all when I could have find the only one I need to impress by being myself.

not the best game plan but it worked for me, I am now with the love of my life.


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Purree

PostPosted: Tue Apr 03, 2007 1:55 am


To the sweat/ax thing, it only adds if you don't over-do it. If you spray ax everywhere and use to much, it's disgusting.
PostPosted: Sat Aug 18, 2007 3:11 am


veelana
Apart from all that has ben said - and said well! - I would encourage you to bathe regularly smile
no, seriously - first impressions are important! being a fantastic person will sadly not get you far in the beginning (speaking from experience here...), you have to make a positive first expression smile
I can't tell you what "girls" like - only what I look(ed) for...

- even if he goes for a ruggedly handsom look (wich I like), he has to be well groomed. I look at hands - clean, smooth hands with cut fingernails are a turn on smile

- dress apropriately. I dont mind guys wearing whatever they want, sometimes it can be cute to look out of place (like a puppy in the rain), but shorts and t-shirt for a classical concert in an opra house = not good. Don't overdo it, either - Iif you don't feel well in a cut, don't wear it! She will cerainly notice.

- "Funny" noises, exclamations etc. ("Wassuuuuuuup" and the like) = not a good way of greating a girl

- Manners. Sounds oldfashioned, but manners will get you further than you think. As with everything else - don't overdo it! Holding the door is nice, but dont make her feel disabled by doing everything for her all the time (gets boring, too)

If you are just looking around and aren't madly in love yet, look around in your own peer group. If you have similar interests, the first date wil not be as awkward if you have something to talk about.
If you fall for someone that doesn't have a lot in common with you, try to share her interests for a bit. You will get to know her better AND you look like you areserious about it.

DO NOT EVER
- Pretend to be someone you're not
- lie to her about where you are/what you do
- tell her she's fat/ugly/looks bad, even if you are breaking up with her
- tell her she's boring
- talk bad about her parents, even if she hates them. we might hate them, but we sure don't like it when you say something bad about them

DO
- bring flowers for her mom when invited - its very old fashioned, but extremely cute and we moms like that
- treat her like the wonderful person she is
- break up in a nice way - if it doesn' last, dont shame yourself by doing something ugly

this is NOT a complete list - just my 2 cents from the top of my head

I ONLY READ LIKE TWO LINES AND I THOUGHT THIS WAS PRETTY GOOD

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