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Okay, so my friends Mary and Sousha (twin sister to my friend Misha, and you'll hear about him later) go to the Boomers! dance. Boomers! is an arcade, mind you. Anyway, grinding with guys isn't my thing, 'cuz I'm not like that, bit I only go to see my friend/ex-boyfriend, Kevin (friend of Misha). We've been chasing after eachother forever. But anyway, I thought it was going to be a typical dance, with just one guy dancing with me, but HOLY s**t WAS I WRONG! I lost count of how many guys dance with me that I didn't know. I mean, I'm not a good grinder and I know it. I can't even VIBRATE. But apparently I'm pretty good, because one of the guys asked me out. Now mind you, I was aiming for asking Kevin out. But I said yes because I'm the kind of girl that goes with what her friends tell her to do.
But here's my problem: I don't like my boyfriend. I don't know Jhenilson and he doesn't know me. I don't think he even wants to know who I really am, 'cuz damn b***h I AM PSYCHOOOO! (lol) And here's my other problem: I think I might love Kevin. That's a HUGE problem because we've only went out once and it was for five days. Danny and Brian (also friends of Misha) told me he wanted to break up with me, but he didn't so I had called him and asked him and he said yes but didn't so it so I did. And I regret it. A LOT.

So what do I do? I don't want to hurt Jhenilson, he's nice. But I don't want to go out with him. And at the same time, the guy I want to go out with, Kevin, I'm in love with. You may think it's a good thing, but for me it's not. Loving Kevin to my friends is an obbsession. Which I'm not. Obbsessed that is. HELP!
(BTW--I am bi, but I lean twords guys because everyone is homophobic in South Florida. X_x)

There is not much advice to give. Do what you want to do, not what your friends want you to do. And if you think you're in love with a different guy there is no point in staying with someone you hardly know. It's unfair to yourself and him. But whatever you end up doing, just make sure you're doing it for yourself, not anyone else. 3nodding

Just tell him the truth and if he dont lyke it. HE CAN GO SCREW A COW.
Tell them what you think and how you feel about the problem. But most if it depends on how he guys take it.
But truth works out all the time.
not kidding

Don't wait to tell him you love him. I waited to tell the girl I loved, and it ended up being too late. Now she won't even talk to me that much anymore.
Key thing: Don't wait for love. Let him know how you feel.