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 Posted: Fri Feb 16, 2007 4:07 pm
umm im grose.. gorda... fat.. ect. and i know my bf likes it..but he doesnt know wat i really look like... like i have stretch marks and they're visible... i hate the way i look...and it's hard for me to try and be sexy.. i can't really do much... and so like before is really embarrassing... (no he hasnt seen me-- but i try and practice looks) and soo.. like... i dunno i know there's ppl out there just like me.. and have over come it.. so plz tell me ur story!!!!! gonk
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Posted: Fri Feb 16, 2007 5:51 pm
A lot of people are fat. A lot of people have stretch marks. A lot of people have brown hair. A lot of people have blue eyes. Yeah, we're all different. That has nothing to do with how attractive or sexy we are, however.
If you go around downing yourself that's what a lot of people are going to find unattractive, not stretch marks or fat or anything else. I have some stretch marks too, a lot of women do, but it never keeps me from getting a lover. Honestly, it just shouldn't matter. If you find a guy who is so shallow that it does matter to him, then run.
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Posted: Sat Feb 17, 2007 1:24 am
I am definatly no where near skinyn i am a fat chick. I have visible stretch marks. on top of that i have eczema which runs up the back of my thighs, my arms and even onto my boobs when my skin gets really dry.
Now, if you're with a guy and he can't accept and love you for who you are then yea you need to just dump his a**. I'd type a lot more but i don't want this to turn into an incoherent rambling i'm starting to get tired. but yea
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Posted: Sat Feb 17, 2007 8:03 am
im not exactly the best looking person around either (pics on profile if you wanna look :]) but my gf loves me still...
and my gf has eczma all over her body, all over her feet, up her legs, over her woo hoo, over her body, her arms, her face and its all in her hair too..but i dont give a s**t as long as she's the same girl i fell in love with...then i'm fine by it and im not going to leave her because of one small thing!
if a guy dumps you for appearance then he knows ******** all about a relationship
you need a guy who respects you for YOU and wont wanna change you for anything
i know i wouldnt for my gf, she rules...i love being with her..shes...amazing..
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