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 Posted: Sat Feb 10, 2007 1:56 pm
Well when I read all these rape stories I get very angry, but at the same time I am ashamed to say all....well excited (you know) I ain't sure if Im breathing hard of hate or any other reason. I don't ever believe I would rape anybody or molester at that fact.
But when I masturbate, I normally think of "rape types" situations, like imagining it happens and I'm the person. Of course I don't imagine her saying it rape or beating her. I also imagine it as hentai not really a person. I probably im getting this idea since hentai involves a lot of raping situations. I don't wanna get into detail of what I think. The question is, is that bad? can this psychologically lead me to attempt rape?
This must be morally degrading and disgusting. It might even hurt some people but I wanted to get it out and know whether I have a problem or something.
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Posted: Sat Feb 10, 2007 3:16 pm
No, I do not think it is bad. We can't really control what we are attracted to, but we can control what we do. As long as this remains a fantasy for you and not something that you actually do, then I do not see a problem. Many people explore fantasy rape. This is where both people are consenting, but they pretend it is a rape situation. They usually use a word like "banana" or "shoe" to mean, "Ok, I really want you to stop" because the person might say "no" or "stop" a lot when they are "in character." This is called a safe word.
If you ever get to the point where you actually want to act out a real forcible rape, not just a fantasy, and you do not think that you can control yourself, then I would say that you would have a duty to get counseling right away.
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Posted: Sat Feb 10, 2007 3:30 pm
Ok I see. and using anime as a sent to you know is normal too right?
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Posted: Sat Feb 10, 2007 7:12 pm
You mean is it normal to use anime in your fantasies and as an outlet for this fantasy in particular? I would say so.
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Posted: Sat Feb 10, 2007 7:20 pm
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 4:00 pm
As long as your fantasies stay as fantasies and you don't actually go and rape someone...it is normal. My ex used to love rape situations and we tried it once, but since I was raped before it brought back horrible memories. So if you ever want to rape a girl (like role-play) then make sure that she is in with it too. But don't hit her or anything.
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