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 Posted: Fri Feb 09, 2007 6:56 pm
Yea another advice one. Or Venting just a bit.
I have been dating this guy for about 3 months and he just found out I am Bi. That wasn't his problem. The problem was his best friend had to tell him. Me and a bunch of friend had a party and my boyfriend didn't come. Lately I have been trying to cut back on drinking and smoking so I didn't drink. I ended up talking to his best friend for hours, just bullshitting and since everyone else was s**t faced, we ignored them.
...they thought he was hitting on me. Wasn't tho, we are just close friends. Anyways I told him I was Bi. My boyfriend presured both of us to say what we were talking about. He was mad I told his friend and not him taht I was Bisexual. Was it that stupid of me? Like I can tell he isn't as close to me since. And they aren't really friends anymore...but for other reasons.
Does your partner need to know?
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Posted: Fri Feb 09, 2007 7:14 pm
~hocus Pocus~ Yea another advice one. Or Venting just a bit.
I have been dating this guy for about 3 months and he just found out I am Bi. That wasn't his problem. The problem was his best friend had to tell him. Me and a bunch of friend had a party and my boyfriend didn't come. Lately I have been trying to cut back on drinking and smoking so I didn't drink. I ended up talking to his best friend for hours, just bullshitting and since everyone else was s**t faced, we ignored them.
...they thought he was hitting on me. Wasn't tho, we are just close friends. Anyways I told him I was Bi. My boyfriend presured both of us to say what we were talking about. He was mad I told his friend and not him taht I was Bisexual. Was it that stupid of me? Like I can tell he isn't as close to me since. And they aren't really friends anymore...but for other reasons.
Does your partner need to know? Ohhhmiiigawwddnessishh.. who did your siggy art. I absolutly love it!
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Posted: Sat Feb 10, 2007 8:30 am
i think that it is important to tell..... if they don't accept you for you then they aren't worth it biggrin
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Posted: Sat Feb 10, 2007 8:48 am
You only tell when and if you're ready.
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Posted: Sat Feb 10, 2007 10:18 am
Him accepting it wouldn't be a problem.
Rikka Prinera athts what I thought to. But I guess if I was ready to tell him best friend, why not him?
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Posted: Sat Feb 10, 2007 10:21 am
~hocus Pocus~ Him accepting it wouldn't be a problem.
Rikka Prinera athts what I thought to. But I guess if I was ready to tell him best friend, why not him?
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Posted: Sat Feb 10, 2007 6:42 pm
lol your getting deep on me. I dunno. its kinda what he wants to know and I don't have an answer. I think its becuase I was afriad he would wonder why I am with him, I didn't think it was on a need to know basis.
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Posted: Sat Feb 10, 2007 7:27 pm
Yeah I know, I tend to do that.
I see what you mean.
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