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TheOneTheyKnowAsSorrow88

PostPosted: Fri Feb 09, 2007 10:58 am


Ouchie. It's bad enough that every time, and no matter what spread, I do about my current relationship it turns out bad! Well I just found this new spread and it was also as bad, but I believe the most accurate. So I'm going to share it with you because...I can.

The first is my emotional baggage, hopes and fears, and expected outcome:
Wanting to achieve a new sense of balance and harmony. Things around you speeding up, things going too fast in the wrong direction but expected all the tension being lifted eventually and everything working out.

The second is his emotional baggage, hopes and fears, and expected outcome:
Wanting a relationship to end, or it to change something about the current situation. Doors closing work wise because of the relationship. Not working, abilities being wasted because of the relationship.

The third is the relationship's, core(what it's founded on), needs(what it needs), what we can expect of it(expectations), the future of it(probable reality):
The relationship is founded on withdrawing from real people and the real world and considering everyone not in this set safe world un-worthy.
This relationship needs both partners staying away from certain friends so that their partner feels secure.
Both expect the relationship to be more work than will be enjoyable. It won't be a celebration as much as a big 'I'm glad that's done with'
The future looks bad for this relationship. To each it will feel more like a burden or chore instead of a happy true and loving relationship.


And there you have it for your enjoyment and reading pleasure. Blah.
PostPosted: Sun Feb 25, 2007 10:01 pm


Aww, that's terrible sad

I kinda know how you feel though - Every type of compatibility report I've ever done with all sorts of divination methods have told me nothing but negative things about my relationship... But you know, last week was our 4 year anniversary and we've been engaged for 3 years, since our son was born, and we've been doing pretty good.

Anywhos, I wish you the best of luck smile

.O M E R T A.


TheOneTheyKnowAsSorrow88

PostPosted: Mon Feb 26, 2007 9:36 pm


Yes thank you! We have been together for 5 years so all this negativity is kinda...weird. Glad I'm not alone though!
PostPosted: Sat Mar 10, 2007 10:29 pm


Well, reading yourself is not a good idea as we taint it and also, as you know things change. So don't dope up on it.

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 12:00 am


I dont worry about my relationships at all, because of the fact that I always withdraw whenever the guy or girl starts to show too much interest in me. Can't have any emotional connections, you know.
PostPosted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 3:37 am


magic dont become innercentered like I for its hard extricating yourself
and as for the main topic. i was not a senclosed as you think you are. i considered everyone else unlucky. i hoped for the best but the rest..is history.long story short: i fell for her. things seemed fine, i found ways of helping her with her proglems, physical and otherwise. put forth almost enough energy on protecting her to kill me ( slept for three weeks afterward), and hunted down those which have no real just cause for harming people, but do so anyhow ( burning footprints are a great clue. damn lab coats) put myself on the line for her countless times, killed my social life because it was the proper ting to do at the time. and trusted her. my only mistake. she chated on me with twelve guys ( in two months) i found out afterward. lied about me, and slept wth my blood brother, which she said countless times she wouldn't
broke her own code and humiliated me. broke my first enchantments and spells, and unleashed a hungry, angry, devastating power within me with such simple actions.

now se is pregnant with a man who abuses hers' kid. should be in the hospital right now.

she insulted me and my oaths by
1. asking the source/great mother for protection from me
2. refusing to undo a binding spell upon me ( wihich, by the grace of the fates, i was able to reverse, with some VERY deadly consequences)
3. constantly attacking me, and attempting to have her 'associates' inhabit me


personally one more and i will have to..erase her mistakes and reveal why im so scared of myself.


which would spell disaster for many. including me because of what i know will happen.

(( not too short huh? wel its MUCH shorter than telling you everythin))

Sephiroth Incarcina Night


biatchykitty

PostPosted: Sun Mar 18, 2007 11:51 pm


i cant read myself- you should have someone else read you
PostPosted: Mon Mar 19, 2007 7:06 pm


Yeah but I don't want to pay gold for it. Lol

TheOneTheyKnowAsSorrow88


biatchykitty

PostPosted: Mon Mar 19, 2007 10:20 pm


pm me sometime and i will do it for you dont worry about the gold
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