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 Posted: Fri Feb 02, 2007 10:41 pm
Most of it is in the title.
First;
My guy wants to make me squirt so bad, but I just dont know what to tell him. I get incredibly wet when we're together, super excited, its like extacy in a way, I would imagen.
But, he wants to make me squirt, and I dont know what hes doing wrong.
He uses his fingers, but I'm scared to let him use his tounge, considering I've never been eaten out. I was going to tell him to use his fingers and his tounge against my c**t, but I just wanted more suggestions on what works for you and what makes you orgasm. I know that we need to experiment for ourselves, but I just wanted a base to work off of.
Second;
Could you guys point me in the direction of a list of sexual positions?
I'm a dancer, so flexibility isnt a problem for me.
I just want valentines day to be amazing, or this Sunday...which ever one really lol.
Oh, and the other thing I need to mention;
I'm a screamer, a moaner, I'm just loud I guess. When I get all hot bothered and twitterpated I moan and groan like theres no tomarrow.
I mean, he loves it, it actually turns him on more, but I cant always be so vocal. I mean, I say to normal things, but;
Any tips to shut me up?
EDIT::
I remembered the sticky with the sexual positions.
But how about ones that work great for you? Like, personal experience.
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 9:11 pm
first: i'm in a similar position. i've NEVER orgasmed. yet. my boyfriend told me the other day that the best valentine's present i could ever give him was to orgasm for him. i would TOTALLY recommend letting him eat you out. first off, it's like he's fingering you, but it's a whole lot softer (i'm really sensitive) and it moves in SO many ways that a p***s or a finger can't! and it's all nice and wet, too! *sighs loningly* anywho, TRY IT!! the worst i can think of that he could probably do is maybe bite you a little too hard. help him out, too. tell him what feels good and what doesn't. what works best for me is when he directs his attention 25% outside, 75% inside.
second: kama sutra.
third: try biting his shoulder or something when you scream and/or moan. my boyfriend LOVES it when i bite his shoulder really hard. and moan while you're biting. or nibble on his ear or neck while moaning. that'll prolly work.
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 10:21 pm
radicalCELLIST first: i'm in a similar position. i've NEVER orgasmed. yet. my boyfriend told me the other day that the best valentine's present i could ever give him was to orgasm for him. i would TOTALLY recommend letting him eat you out. first off, it's like he's fingering you, but it's a whole lot softer (i'm really sensitive) and it moves in SO many ways that a p***s or a finger can't! and it's all nice and wet, too! *sighs loningly* anywho, TRY IT!! the worst i can think of that he could probably do is maybe bite you a little too hard. help him out, too. tell him what feels good and what doesn't. what works best for me is when he directs his attention 25% outside, 75% inside. second: kama sutra. third: try biting his shoulder or something when you scream and/or moan. my boyfriend LOVES it when i bite his shoulder really hard. and moan while you're biting. or nibble on his ear or neck while moaning. that'll prolly work. I'll most defiantly let him eat me out. Yeah, my new goal is to actually orgasm. We do the biting thing...I leave marks on his neck/shoulder he loves it so much. In the past two days I've just been looking up sex positions lol, and I'm super excited. I've only ever had sex with one other guy, and he forced me into it, literately, so I'm planning to have this be a much better experience. Thanks for all your help!
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Posted: Sun Feb 04, 2007 2:22 am
i like it best when my boyfirend uses his tounge on my c**t while fingering me..
OMG orgasam time....
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Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 4:06 pm
Nozomi Michi Thanks for all your help! no problem! ^ ^ in fact, would you mind telling me which positions work out best for you? (orgasm-wise) because my boyfriend and i had sex last night (we were at my house, mom was in the shower), there was like, almost no foreplay crying , and he was--literally--in tears because i didn't orgasm. i managed to console him later that night by telling him that most girls don't orgasm--during intercourse--until maybe their 20th time. but if you could give me some feedback, that would be mooshlovely! ^ ^
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Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 2:53 pm
radicalCELLIST Nozomi Michi Thanks for all your help! no problem! ^ ^ in fact, would you mind telling me which positions work out best for you? (orgasm-wise) because my boyfriend and i had sex last night (we were at my house, mom was in the shower), there was like, almost no foreplay crying , and he was--literally--in tears because i didn't orgasm. i managed to console him later that night by telling him that most girls don't orgasm--during intercourse--until maybe their 20th time. but if you could give me some feedback, that would be mooshlovely! ^ ^ I've been having this same issue too! sweatdrop I orgasm when I masturbate, but never for my boyfriend. He feels like he's letting me down everytime we have sex, even though I still find the experience incredibly awesome. xd I'm rather confused by it; I'm still new to sex (I lost my virginity to him only a month and a half ago), he and I are very close, and they're aren't any tensions in the relationship. The female orgasm had been a myth for so many years, and although achieving such may be easy for some women, I'm really hoping that it's not virtually impossible for others. If it is someday proven that female orgasms are in fact 100% possible for every woman, what could it be that is hindering myself and others from it, if the relationship is sound and comfortable? Hm......
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Posted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 7:56 pm
this past weekend, when my boyfriend had to go home, he and i hopped into the backseat of his car before he left. i started to give him a blow job, and my neighbors backed out of their garage across the street, startling us. (he had been just about to orgasm, when we were startled) and he now says that he understands what i've been experiencing for the last year. (in terms of me feeling really good when he does stuff for me, but i don't orgasm.) and i'm happy 'cuz he finally understands!! ^ ^ *dances in a little circle*
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Posted: Tue Feb 20, 2007 11:20 am
ciel_noir radicalCELLIST Nozomi Michi Thanks for all your help! no problem! ^ ^ in fact, would you mind telling me which positions work out best for you? (orgasm-wise) because my boyfriend and i had sex last night (we were at my house, mom was in the shower), there was like, almost no foreplay crying , and he was--literally--in tears because i didn't orgasm. i managed to console him later that night by telling him that most girls don't orgasm--during intercourse--until maybe their 20th time. but if you could give me some feedback, that would be mooshlovely! ^ ^ I've been having this same issue too! sweatdrop I orgasm when I masturbate, but never for my boyfriend. He feels like he's letting me down everytime we have sex, even though I still find the experience incredibly awesome. xd I'm rather confused by it; I'm still new to sex (I lost my virginity to him only a month and a half ago), he and I are very close, and they're aren't any tensions in the relationship. The female orgasm had been a myth for so many years, and although achieving such may be easy for some women, I'm really hoping that it's not virtually impossible for others. If it is someday proven that female orgasms are in fact 100% possible for every woman, what could it be that is hindering myself and others from it, if the relationship is sound and comfortable? Hm...... It took me a coupla months to get off from sex, and I don't think everyone does. Plus, it's not about getting off for me, although my boyfriend likes to make me get off. >.< Anyway, however relaxed you are, just experiment a bit. Try letting him go down on you (although not everyone likes that.) Almost anything you can think of. I'm sure you'll be just fine.
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Posted: Thu Feb 22, 2007 7:20 pm
Well, first off, don't have sex when you've got a time limit... like your mom being in the shower. If you've never orgasmed, probably one of the most important parts is really good foreplay to get you VERY horny before you start. Then you want all the time you can get to keep working at something.
As far as different positions, everyone is different. Penises are different sizes, length and width, as are women. Just experiment.
A couple of things to try:
Obviously a combination of oral and fingering, as has already been mentioned.
Try the "normal" position (missionary), guy on top, but wrap your legs around him or even just raise your knees as close to YOUR head as you can get them. Pelvic grinding in this position is a lot easier, and is a big help for some women.
Try getting on top. That way, YOU'RE in control, and if your guy wants to help, he can work with you with some thrusts and you might get good results that way.
Some people swear by doggie-style, girl on hands and knees with the guy behind her.
Honestly, it's not the insane looking positions that do it for most people, it's the relatively simple ones that allow for just the right penetration or the right angle.
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Posted: Fri Feb 23, 2007 9:00 pm
Rinaqa ciel_noir radicalCELLIST Nozomi Michi Thanks for all your help! no problem! ^ ^ in fact, would you mind telling me which positions work out best for you? (orgasm-wise) because my boyfriend and i had sex last night (we were at my house, mom was in the shower), there was like, almost no foreplay crying , and he was--literally--in tears because i didn't orgasm. i managed to console him later that night by telling him that most girls don't orgasm--during intercourse--until maybe their 20th time. but if you could give me some feedback, that would be mooshlovely! ^ ^ I've been having this same issue too! sweatdrop I orgasm when I masturbate, but never for my boyfriend. He feels like he's letting me down everytime we have sex, even though I still find the experience incredibly awesome. xd I'm rather confused by it; I'm still new to sex (I lost my virginity to him only a month and a half ago), he and I are very close, and they're aren't any tensions in the relationship. The female orgasm had been a myth for so many years, and although achieving such may be easy for some women, I'm really hoping that it's not virtually impossible for others. If it is someday proven that female orgasms are in fact 100% possible for every woman, what could it be that is hindering myself and others from it, if the relationship is sound and comfortable? Hm...... It took me a coupla months to get off from sex, and I don't think everyone does. Plus, it's not about getting off for me, although my boyfriend likes to make me get off. >.< Anyway, however relaxed you are, just experiment a bit. Try letting him go down on you (although not everyone likes that.) Almost anything you can think of. I'm sure you'll be just fine. Thanks! I won't worry about it so much now; sex and intimacy don't have to be centered around the orgasm like it's the only true key to pleasure. 3nodding
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