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punky_brewster

PostPosted: Sun Jan 21, 2007 10:34 pm


Okay I have given it good time, but now I am getting ahead of myself. My breast are two diffrent sizes. One is inbetween A and B, and the other is C borderline D. I am 16 and have pretty much stopped growing. Both my mother and female doctor are concerened. I think it bothers my mom more then me. But I dont want to use and insert and then someone use it against me. So I usually just dress in baggy clothes and hide it. It keeps me from dressing like a girl and showing off my figure. ((I am actually confident about my figure and wieght and I know I look good.)) My doctor just said that I have to wait till I am eighteen and then can have it fixed with plastic surgery.


So here is what I want to know:

-From guys: would you prefer a girl who is natural but has two diffrent sized boobs or a girl with perfect breasts that has had surgery ((it would only be to make them the same))?

-How can I be more apealing ((not wearing guys clothes)) and not look like a freak in the top?

-Bathing suits are a big problem, what can I do?

-Whats the best way to make the diffrence not stand out?
PostPosted: Mon Jan 22, 2007 12:32 am


I've got the same problem (one is a DD, other is a C), what I find that helps disguise it is to wear and in between bra (I wear D) and for them to be padded. It don't disguise it completely, but it helps.

If it's really obvious, you may just either have to deal with it and forget about it, or buy an insert.

KaseyBaby


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 22, 2007 12:28 pm


I had a friend with the same problem, and let me tell you, she had no problem getting men. xp My vote (even though I am a straight girl xp ) would probably be all natural. I would probably stuff that side of my bra, then be very honest about it with any men that I started seeing just so that there are no surprises later. I would say that any guy who cares that much isn't worth it anyway, so it wouldn't be a big loss if he said he couldn't deal with that.
PostPosted: Mon Jan 22, 2007 2:11 pm


I have tried using a bra that is inbetween but its such a big diffrence I am either swimming on one side or falling over the top of the bra on the other side.
Its not that I have problems getting men, its that I am self conscious about it.

punky_brewster


Maiasaurus Rex

PostPosted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 11:56 pm


I have the same problem, I'm not to worried about it though. :]
PostPosted: Sun Apr 01, 2007 8:59 am


If it worries you, it can't hurt to talk to a gyno. I can almost guarantee though, they will reassure you and maybe give some scientific insight into it. What are your doctor's "concerns"?

With the site listed, I'd recommend going and talking to the people who work at Victoria's Secret or any other department of a store that has lingerie specialist. They might be able to lead you in the right direction and give you idea. I HIGHLY recommend it anyways to ensure you are wearing the proper sized bra. I do know they make inserts for bras. I think honestly that would do a world for your confidence. It's not like it's blatantly obvious you have inserts. If you get a good one and a equally good bra, no one is going to know but you.

http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/girls/breast_size.html

lunashock


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 9:20 am


that's incredibly normal

mine were like that but they've caught eachother up now

don't worry about it theres nothing really you can do
PostPosted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 9:57 am


You might still develop. I was an A until I was about 18, then I went up to a large B.

(And after having a baby, I'm now stuck at a D, even after the babyweight. sweatdrop )

Miss Kupi


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PostPosted: Tue May 08, 2007 10:31 am


My boobs used to be quite different in sizes, but in time the smaller boob has nearly caught up and now you can't tell... well hardilly, you'd have to be told 3nodding
PostPosted: Tue May 08, 2007 11:57 am


My boobs used to be like that. My left one is bigger than my right onw but i don't think you nee to be too concerned over it.

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darktina

PostPosted: Tue May 15, 2007 9:49 pm


I would prefer the plastic surgery
but a reduction on the larger on instead of an enlargment on the smaller one.
PostPosted: Thu May 17, 2007 9:43 pm


It is natural for your boobs to be different. Everyone is like that. It's usually the side you write with that is bigger because you use that part of your part of your body more than the other. So, your muscles are bigger on that side. If I were you I would not worry about what guys thing about you. Asking what guys think shows an insecurity. Love yourself before you even think to love someone else.

Murokui

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