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 Posted: Fri Jan 19, 2007 10:57 pm
i told my close friend rachael a while back that i loved her, and i dont think she quite got it. there are many types of love, after all, and so its perfectly natural to not know what is meant when one says "i love you"... i want more than anything to tell her that i love her in the sense that im in love with her. cuz there IS a difference, between loving someone and being in love with them. unfortunately, its not the kidn of thing that can be explained, so if yoy dont get it then i guess you jsut dont get it.
but yeah, i need advice... should i tell her? i posted a while back in my journal how i felt, the post was at around 4 AM or something (last time i slept over my friends house, where im typing this from now at 2 AM this time)... its so hard to accept, it seems so awkward at times but otherwise it feels natural that i lvoe her this way... but really, i just want to know if telling her sounds like the right thing to do...? please. i dont knwo what to do!
~Rin
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Posted: Sat Jan 20, 2007 12:43 pm
Tell her. It's best if she knows exactly what you meant.
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Posted: Sat Jan 20, 2007 7:29 pm
......I agree with tuba on this....
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Posted: Sun Jan 21, 2007 4:54 am
*nodnod* ok then, i was hoping you guys would say that ^_^ if it was going to seem weird to tell her though, i wouldnt... but thanks for the advice, now i just gotta wait til the next time she comes over which will be sometime after her pneumonia goes away ._.
~Rin
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Posted: Sun Jan 21, 2007 8:17 pm
Always the best thing to do (for the most part) is to let them know otherwise if they too feel the same way you both can get together. If she doesn't then you can at least still be friends :3
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Posted: Mon Jan 22, 2007 2:42 am
yes, at least if all else fails we'll still be friends ^_^ cuz shes not the type to be like "oh youre in love with me? *scoot scoot* just gonna go over there now... *runs*" luckily XD
~Rin
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Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 11:26 am
just to hammer a few details.... Is she Bi, withsomeone, open minded,
Have you ever dropped hints of sexualy attraction do you feel sexually drawn to her(I know love isnt sex but trust me after a while it becomes imporant)
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Posted: Sun Feb 18, 2007 10:37 pm
i have no idea what her sexual preferencs are. and if she couldnt tell from how often i randomly hug her or say things like "i love you heart =D" or say i think shes pretty or whatever other random junk im sure i sputter how i feel, i'd have to say shes incredibly dense... ... ...wait a minute.... XD she DOESNT realize! she IS dense! but to be honest im not exctly "sexually drawn" to her. i dont really like the idea of sux in general, i dont care who i would be having it with. in fact, im not attracted to either gender in particular and actually strongly dislike both (as i generally dislike people). but shes special XP
~Rin
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