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 Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 6:58 pm
So my boyfriend and I been together for a long time now and we've had sex. Is it usual for me to feel un-satisfied?? Like we try new things and everything, but it doesn't do anything. I've tried to do things, but I never enjoy it or get as much pleasure out of it as he does. I don't have high expectations to enjoy making love and being satisfied. I just have this feeling of unsatisfaction after everytime we have sex, I feel I could keep going on forever and don't want to stop. Does anyone else feel the same way or are we having bad sex??? *shaking my head* lol
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Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 7:14 pm
It's understandable. Few women actually do orgasm from sex. If your boyfriend can get you off any other way, incorporate that into sex. Like if he can finger you well or eat you out well, get him to do that to you either before or after sex. Tell him it's not his fault - it's just hard for you to get off and you need that specific way to do it and that you want to have fun like he is.
You don't necessarily have to orgasm to enjoy sex. Try mixing things up. Role play, try some new positions, do it somewhere kinda dangerous, anything to get your adrenaline pumping. I can't orgasm during sex but I still can enjoy it - try to bask in the relaxation of the afterglow.
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Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 7:41 pm
Yay! I understand, I don't think I'll ever be able to orgasm while having sex *sigh* oh well...lol I do tell him all the time that is not his fault because it really isn't. I always want to try exploring different spots or try new things, but then it always leads to something...like not exploring. If we don't take time to explore and find those specific spots on each other, it's hard to have a fun time for both of us. I'm pretty sure he won't go for fingering me or eat me out afterwards, but beforehand he might if I ask...thanks a lot though, you helped a great deal heart biggrin
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Posted: Mon Jan 22, 2007 3:58 pm
You know, I thought of something. Most time during sex, when either have a orgasm, they stop and are done. However, if neither could, they could still enjoy it and can stop when they want. For, some reason when my girl friend and I have sex and I orgasm or her, we just stop and just talk. So, not able to orgasm all the time can't be that bad? Yeah, after awhile it'll get odd, or boring.
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