ok.
im pretty sure im straight, but its not really my problem.
my problem is that HE THINKS IM A LESBIAN.
he = jerry.
and he thinks im a lesbian.
Now, its not that I like Jerry, at all, as a person really.
But how can I tell him I'm *NOT*.
Its strange, because hes convinced I think he likes me @_@;
and I know he doesn't.
And well, there was a time I wasn't sure, he used to follow me everywhere, so I ALWAYS talked about this guy Brenden I really like. Always, I'll tell him I got a date with him, blah blah blah...
yet. he thinks I'm a lesbian.
Now I have a tendancy of getting "close" with girls. I'll be all over them, like, hugging them, hanging on them, like one might hang all over a boyfriend if shes extremely clingy. One friend in particular, because we're the clingy type.
Jerry took the liberty of going to that friend of mine, talking to her, and being like, "CHELSEA HAS THE HOTS FOR YOU!!"
of course, me and my friend weren't surpised, really, since he followed me to a GSA (gay-straight alliance) meeting.
But like.... why would you say that?
And then theres this other friend I have. Shes like a sister to me. He thought we were really sisters, cuz apparently we look exactally alike. We're explaining to him that we do not look alike. She happens to be a little taller and more.. more girth than me. She explained it by saying, MY BOOBS ARE BIGGER! (she likes to shove it in my face haha).
Jerry talks to me online later, and says to me "She said something to me that makes me think you two were lovers"
I was speechless. Absolutally speechless. Right after I tell him we're pretty much sisters, he asks if we're lovers.
I am not sure what to do. When he said that, I told him, no, we're definetly not. But I don't think hes gonna get the hint.
So what do I do. Should I talk about Brenden more to him, or will that make me seem too... too much "in denial about being lesbian"?
Or should I just say straight up, "JERRY! IM STRAIGHT!!!"
?
thanks<33
im pretty sure im straight, but its not really my problem.
my problem is that HE THINKS IM A LESBIAN.
he = jerry.
and he thinks im a lesbian.
Now, its not that I like Jerry, at all, as a person really.
But how can I tell him I'm *NOT*.
Its strange, because hes convinced I think he likes me @_@;
and I know he doesn't.
And well, there was a time I wasn't sure, he used to follow me everywhere, so I ALWAYS talked about this guy Brenden I really like. Always, I'll tell him I got a date with him, blah blah blah...
yet. he thinks I'm a lesbian.
Now I have a tendancy of getting "close" with girls. I'll be all over them, like, hugging them, hanging on them, like one might hang all over a boyfriend if shes extremely clingy. One friend in particular, because we're the clingy type.
Jerry took the liberty of going to that friend of mine, talking to her, and being like, "CHELSEA HAS THE HOTS FOR YOU!!"
of course, me and my friend weren't surpised, really, since he followed me to a GSA (gay-straight alliance) meeting.
But like.... why would you say that?
And then theres this other friend I have. Shes like a sister to me. He thought we were really sisters, cuz apparently we look exactally alike. We're explaining to him that we do not look alike. She happens to be a little taller and more.. more girth than me. She explained it by saying, MY BOOBS ARE BIGGER! (she likes to shove it in my face haha).
Jerry talks to me online later, and says to me "She said something to me that makes me think you two were lovers"
I was speechless. Absolutally speechless. Right after I tell him we're pretty much sisters, he asks if we're lovers.
I am not sure what to do. When he said that, I told him, no, we're definetly not. But I don't think hes gonna get the hint.
So what do I do. Should I talk about Brenden more to him, or will that make me seem too... too much "in denial about being lesbian"?
Or should I just say straight up, "JERRY! IM STRAIGHT!!!"
?
thanks<33
