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 Posted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 8:40 pm
My situation is that I have girl-relation problems.
To most people, it's no big deal, but for me, I see it differently.
First of all, I go to an all guys, private, military academy. I have been there since sophomore year and now I'm a senior. Throughout those years, I've been flirting with girls and been flirted back. To everyone, that is a good sign, but as time passed, the girls I've been talking to, start to ask about having a relationship. I was like "sure~" and they were like "ok~!"... Few days later, I found out that they were taken and I was disappointed.
I was disappointed that I wasted life, energy, time, and effort just talking to the girls. More ever, I feel really down because everytime I try, it fails in the end. I've thoughout about life and the uselessness of my existence. I wondered why I'm always single or why I'm ending up being the loner at proms/balls etc.
I just don't see any clue why my life is so precious...
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Posted: Thu Jan 04, 2007 4:31 am
I would say that it might be a sign of a problem if you really feel this strongly about it. Many people want a relationship, but it's not really healthy to need one and to feel that life has no meaning without one. I have been single, in long relationships, and in short relationships. I think they are all great in their own way. I have said before in another thread of yours, that there's nothing different about you. I go through the same exact thing. I meet guys, we flirt, we talk about a relationship, then nothing happens. That's life. It happens. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. You're still a kid (I know most people your age hate hearing that), and you have plenty of time for relationships. I can tell you this though, if you want a relationship just for the sake of having a relationship, that's a pretty big turn off for many girls. I would not want to be with a guy who said, "I don't care who I am dating, as long as I am dating someone because I hate being single." Would you want a girl to say that kind of thing to you? If you are having feelings about life not being worth living, for whatever reason, talk to someone other than us because that could be a sign that something serious is going on, and most of us are not professionals.
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Posted: Thu Jan 04, 2007 7:16 pm
LorienLlewellyn I would say that it might be a sign of a problem if you really feel this strongly about it. Many people want a relationship, but it's not really healthy to need one and to feel that life has no meaning without one. I have been single, in long relationships, and in short relationships. I think they are all great in their own way. I have said before in another thread of yours, that there's nothing different about you. I go through the same exact thing. I meet guys, we flirt, we talk about a relationship, then nothing happens. That's life. It happens. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. You're still a kid (I know most people your age hate hearing that), and you have plenty of time for relationships. I can tell you this though, if you want a relationship just for the sake of having a relationship, that's a pretty big turn off for many girls. I would not want to be with a guy who said, "I don't care who I am dating, as long as I am dating someone because I hate being single." Would you want a girl to say that kind of thing to you? If you are having feelings about life not being worth living, for whatever reason, talk to someone other than us because that could be a sign that something serious is going on, and most of us are not professionals. I agree... sweatdrop I want to date because I just feel abnormal and so distant away from my friends... crying When we start talking about girls, I'm always the one that is quiet and never has anything to contribute =(...
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