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 Posted: Thu Jun 23, 2005 9:27 pm
*nods attentively* Quote: We're not a type of animal that you have to hook up sensors to us to see what we're thinking and how we think. Yeah, I know that, and I also know that my words sounded so much like that. >>;
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Posted: Thu Jun 23, 2005 10:12 pm
*points and laughs* You're so confused! surprised
Just kidding.
Uhm.. For the first question. If you are going to compliment a girl, wait. Dont do it around your rowdy, giggling friends. If you're alone and your both having a good time bowling or something.. a simple "You look really beautiful tonight" Would be fine by me. And if she deny's it, make sure she know you are really sincere.
As for the second one.. that has happened to me and it sucks. Just sneak questions or statements into your conversation to see if they like you. Or if Its just silly friend stuff.
Sorry I couldnt be more of a help, I suck at these things stressed
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Posted: Thu Jun 23, 2005 11:42 pm
>.> I do believe we were discussing Fuzzy's predicament, and not flirting with one another though it is endearingly cute 4laugh I had to delete the posts in accordance with the rules
As for you Fuzz, just be honest. I find that compliments are wasted without meanigful conversation. I would say the best way to go about it very simply talk to the girl in a friendly manner, to show you are geniuine and are respectful, then move into more romatic waters from there.
How to tell hmmm. Well, I would get a general sense of what their dating situation is. I'm a horrible flirt but I'm also engaged. If a girl has a boyfriend, thought not necessarily always the case, chances are she is simply a flirt. However, if small suggestive remarks are made over and over again and there's no boyfriend you know about... I'd say chances are she's into you.
I thought my boyfriend who's a year younger than me, 20 soon to be 21, being 5'10" devilishly handsome with the most beautiful blue eyes and weighing in at whopping 135 lbs on a heavy day wouldn't have taken an interest in a girl who is sexy but 5'6" and close to 300lbs. I was very wrong and I was very afraid to admit my feelings for him because I was so guarded.
It's all about reassurance, patience, and honesty.
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Posted: Fri Jun 24, 2005 6:49 am
Some tell tale signs that a girl likes you:
She leans into you, looking attentively, when you talk to her.
If she's sitting beside you or not to far across from you, she will be prone to putting her hand on your arm/shoulder/lap eek while you two are conversing.
She may be prone to running her fingers through her hair or adjusting her shirt or fidgets with her rings/bracelet/necklace if she's interested...she's trying to get you to notice her.
She engages in your conversation...she seems interested in whatever you are talking about and gives her point of view about the topic (now, on the flipside, a shy girl may look down and smile, blushing a bit...she doesn't want you to think she's not being social or not interested, but she's nervous...so if you're talking about serious topics, why not talk about a topic that interests her that way she can talk about something she knows).
If you ask to walk her home *or at least to her bus stop* and she agrees...that means she trusts you...she thinks you won't try and take advantage of her.
...and that's the most I can think of *it's been awhile since I have dated, heh sweatdrop *, I hope I've helped you somewhat.
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Posted: Fri Jun 24, 2005 8:58 am
My opinon, you just can't expect some one to explain to you the question you asked. Each girl is different you know? One girl might be like:
"OMG Ur so ******** hot!"
And might acutally mean it, while another one might say:
"Hey, your looking good today like always."
And might just be saying that to be friendly. You must learn about the person who you believe likes you to find that out yourself bro 3nodding
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Posted: Fri Jun 24, 2005 11:49 am
I tend to befriend the girl first and get to know them. That way when your talking you can always drop subtle compliments in the conversation. I don't know if that helps any, plus I'm also a guy lol so you never know
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Posted: Fri Jun 24, 2005 12:06 pm
as for your first question if you were to say something sincere to me, I would smile at you politely.
2nd ??? I would try to say some back to you as a responce to what you siad to me in the first question. But that is just me not most of th e girls out there.
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Posted: Fri Jun 24, 2005 3:07 pm
First:
Be genuinely sincere -
A girl can usually (not always) tell the difference between sarcasm and sincerity---
Second:
It completely depends on the girl.-
Personally, when I like someone, I tend to become very touchy, yet reserved at the same time.
I'll make any sort of physical contact that I can, but I won't speak much. Ever.
.. then again, I hardly ever speak at all anyways.
.. wow I'm not much help. xD Sorry.
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Posted: Fri Jun 24, 2005 3:17 pm
cerebral ulcer First:
Be genuinely sincere -
A girl can usually (not always) tell the difference between sarcasm and sincerity---
Second:
It completely depends on the girl.-
Personally, when I like someone, I tend to become very touchy, yet reserved at the same time.
I'll make any sort of physical contact that I can, but I won't speak much. Ever.
.. then again, I hardly ever speak at all anyways.
.. wow I'm not much help. xD Sorry. *pokes* At least you tried wink heart Unfortunately Fuzzeh, there is not predefined characteristics that explains women...but if someone is diggin' ya, you'll probably know 3nodding
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Posted: Sun Jul 03, 2005 10:28 pm
hmmmm if I know a guy that I like in real life then I personally just sit there and stare at the particular male in question, and whenever I talk to guys I usually laugh alot.... but over the internet I dont know.
I dont know if other girls are the same or not, but thats how I act
good luck fuzzy on trying to figure out the female mind......LOL sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Jul 03, 2005 10:38 pm
Tessiebean cerebral ulcer First:
Be genuinely sincere -
A girl can usually (not always) tell the difference between sarcasm and sincerity---
Second:
It completely depends on the girl.-
Personally, when I like someone, I tend to become very touchy, yet reserved at the same time.
I'll make any sort of physical contact that I can, but I won't speak much. Ever.
.. then again, I hardly ever speak at all anyways.
.. wow I'm not much help. xD Sorry. *pokes* At least you tried wink heart Unfortunately Fuzzeh, there is not predefined characteristics that explains women...but if someone is diggin' ya, you'll probably know 3nodding You put to little faith in my obvliviousness and inability to correctly intepret social cues. =/
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