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jnc815

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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 10:26 am

I've been with this girl for two months and she is the best, but she isn't out and I am. I know it takes time for people to be ok with it and that she is worried what people will say,but I don't think its fair to do this to each other. I want her to have someone she can hold and not care what people will think. I just wish I knew what to do I have never been in something like this I like her a lot but I don't think its worth it anymore.

Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 10:44 pm

Tricky... Perhaps people will just assume you two are a couple if you spend alot of time together? But if she's not comfortable with coming out.. Then no use forcing that idea on her.. Just tell her it would mean something to you if she did come out, and how you would love the freedom of being affectionate wherever you two are. She should be ok with the idea eventually, trust me! I would just try and keep it discreet until then.
Hang in there! Goodluck hun.

`Roguey
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jnc815

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Posted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 3:06 pm

`Roguey

Tricky... Perhaps people will just assume you two are a couple if you spend alot of time together? But if she's not comfortable with coming out.. Then no use forcing that idea on her.. Just tell her it would mean something to you if she did come out, and how you would love the freedom of being affectionate wherever you two are. She should be ok with the idea eventually, trust me! I would just try and keep it discreet until then.
Hang in there! Goodluck hun.

thanks i don't know how well it will work we hang out with two different groups mine are good with it hers i am not sure

Posted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 6:06 pm

just remain calm

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