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I just want to point out that you are right, a lot of women do sell themselves for $10 on their street, but there's a reason for that. Those women are often homeless, drug addicts, or both. It's not that they're only worth $10, it's that they have problems and are that desperate as to only ask that low amount. High end hookers make a heck of a lot more, bit I digress. Do we really need to compare you to hookers to try to find out your monetary value? Your average person considers themselves worth more than any amount of money. That's why they sleep with who they want, when they want, and don't put a price on it. They have sex because they want to. That might be part of why luna suggested counseling. I don't think most of us compare ourselves to hookers to try to find out our street value. I don't care what price I could fetch on the street because I am not sleeping with anyone that I don't want to be sleeping with to make money. Unless you plan on going into prostitution, I don't see why you would need to know your street value either. If you want to bring a third person into your relationship at some point, you should do it because you and your boyfriend both want to and are comfortable with that person, not because you are considering doing some guy that you're not comfortable with a favor for a cash payoff.

Out of curiosity, why didn't you stay in therapy?

I have to agree with the TC. She's decided not to sleep with this second dude and that's awesome. Let's not make this thread about other problems she may or may not have; It's obvious she isn't interested.

hon, no man will ever have enough money to "buy" any girl. you can't just assign a monetary value to a person. i don't even know you, and i think you're worth much more than $150.