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PostPosted: Thu Nov 08, 2007 3:26 pm


TheLyelac1
I've noticed some male aquarians have low self esteem problems if you say something mean about them but they are really social if you don't.


Isn't that everyone though?? Seriously, if you say something mean about someone their self esteem usually goes down, that's how these things work lol sweatdrop

I'm starting to think it might be linked to the logical side of them? Not like a nit-picky virgo thing, more acknowledging what they've done but logically thinking, 'but it could be better here', 'that bit needs to be here' etc. I didn't explain that too well, and it really doesn't explain the ego thing (maybe the opposite, they've reasoned it out so wel they know it's right?)

As to that ego thing - I don't think it's as general as you guys seem to think it is, I know two aquarians, both female, one has a ego one doesn't....still a bit confused! Self esteem to me shouldn't be a real issue to Aquarians, overall. Maybe 'I don't like how I did this here' on something specific but the general 'I feel bad about myself in general' which Itend to think of as low self esteem I can't see being associated wih any sign as such, maybe some of more predisposed to it, but generally I think this is one of those social aspects rather than astrological...(just my eight cents there guys biggrin )
PostPosted: Thu Nov 08, 2007 3:34 pm


Fogwolf
Well, we are supposed to be contrary, aren't we?

"You're good at art!"
"No I'm not!"

"You're wrong about (insert topic here)!"
"No I'm not!"

Do an experiment - see what happens if you tell him he's right/sucks at art?

Besides, we are supposed to be paradoxical. Like the emotionally detached humanitarian thing, this is probably just another example.


lmao I'd like to think that there would be a limit to that sort of reverse psychology/innate rebellion thing, ie.

"You don't support torture!"
"Yes I do!"

rofl
Or maybe there's smething you're not telling me ninja

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TheLyelac1

PostPosted: Thu Nov 08, 2007 5:02 pm


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TheLyelac1
I've noticed some male aquarians have low self esteem problems if you say something mean about them but they are really social if you don't.


Isn't that everyone though?? Seriously, if you say something mean about someone their self esteem usually goes down, that's how these things work lol sweatdrop

I'm starting to think it might be linked to the logical side of them? Not like a nit-picky virgo thing, more acknowledging what they've done but logically thinking, 'but it could be better here', 'that bit needs to be here' etc. I didn't explain that too well, and it really doesn't explain the ego thing (maybe the opposite, they've reasoned it out so wel they know it's right?)

As to that ego thing - I don't think it's as general as you guys seem to think it is, I know two aquarians, both female, one has a ego one doesn't....still a bit confused! Self esteem to me shouldn't be a real issue to Aquarians, overall. Maybe 'I don't like how I did this here' on something specific but the general 'I feel bad about myself in general' which Itend to think of as low self esteem I can't see being associated wih any sign as such, maybe some of more predisposed to it, but generally I think this is one of those social aspects rather than astrological...(just my eight cents there guys biggrin )
Some people don't automatically or even not at all take offense to others opinions and aren't bolstered by peoples comments.
PostPosted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 12:34 pm


I'm arrogant and cruel when angered.
(I'm leo and this is true, I can be Very Cruel when I can be)

Jessybelldove

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