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 Posted: Wed Dec 20, 2006 8:58 am
Me and my bf have been together almost two years. We have decided to wait till marriage to have sex. Well we have talked about handjobs and fingering but not in detail. I recently asked him if i offered to give him a handjob what would he do, he said he would let me. Thing is i dont know how and i dont want to hurt him or displease him. Any advice on this subject?
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Posted: Wed Dec 20, 2006 11:00 am
Talk to him about it. If he knows that you don't have experience, just ask him to guide you. Ask him exactly how he likes it, maybe how he does it, if he likes it fast or slow, etc. People like different things. By asking him, you will be more likely to please him and less likely to hurt him. Any tips that we could give you as far as technique goes might not be what he likes. So to know for sure, you have to ask him, not us. I doubt you'll displease him or hurt him with him there to guide you, but if you do not feel comfortable talking to him about it, experimenting, maybe making a mistake along the way, and asking him to guide you, then you might want to think about waiting until you are more comfortable.
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Posted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 2:53 pm
listen to LorienLlewellyn she has it down perfectly, talk to him asking advise from us is nice and all but we aren't him i like it rough but he may be different.
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Posted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 8:38 pm
LorienLlewellyn Talk to him about it. If he knows that you don't have experience, just ask him to guide you. Ask him exactly how he likes it, maybe how he does it, if he likes it fast or slow, etc. People like different things. By asking him, you will be more likely to please him and less likely to hurt him. Any tips that we could give you as far as technique goes might not be what he likes. So to know for sure, you have to ask him, not us. I doubt you'll displease him or hurt him with him there to guide you, but if you do not feel comfortable talking to him about it, experimenting, maybe making a mistake along the way, and asking him to guide you, then you might want to think about waiting until you are more comfortable. Couldn't have said it better myself. Just talk to him and make sure that he knows that if you do something to hurt him or something he doesn't feel comfortable with that he tells you.
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Posted: Fri Jan 05, 2007 10:58 am
I just wanted to throw this out there: if you make a mistake, or accidentally hurt him, or displease him, and he gets mad at you about it, dump him right then, while he still has his pants down. And, he should help you if you're having trouble, whether or not you ask him what he likes. That's the biggest lesson my boyfriend has taught me: you won't get what you want if you don't ask for it.
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