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Posted: Sat Dec 09, 2006 5:22 pm
Before you tell me to take a pregnancy test. Listen I will. As soon as I can. But right now I am interested in your replies.
I am 15 and my boyfriend is 19. (Which means he can go to jail for having sexual intercourse with me) Anyway three months ago we were mucking around and we got a little too far and he told me to stop but I didn't hear him and he came a tiny bit in my but. We stopped instantly and I went and cleaned up. It was only a tiny bit.
Two weeks later I got my period. And I have had my period twice afterwards. It was late now, but it hasn't been on time for a long while now. Also, the stress of wanting my period and 'what if' could also be a factor as to why I havn't had it yet.
Also, I have lost weight in the last few weeks and if I was pregnant I would assume I should be gaining it as I havn't put any on the whole time. Anyway, today I was lying down on the couch with the tv remote control on my lap and it started wobbling and moving. I got scared and sat up. I was like "OMG that could of been a baby so I could of been pregnant". But yeah it could be paranoia right?
I havn't had any other symptoms other then those two. But still. I would like other peoples opinions on this thanks.
P.S I havn't gone to a Doctor because if my Parents find out they will charge my boyfriend of almost two years and send him to jail when getting intimate was my choice.
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Posted: Sat Dec 09, 2006 6:41 pm
1. I doubt you are pregnant. Most pregnant women do not get their period (a few actually do). Also, I think it would be far too soon for you to feel a baby kick, so I doubt that is why the remote moved. So neither of those things sound like sign that you are pregnant to me. 2. Be aware that you can get pregnant from pre-ejaculate, so you can't rely on the pull out method. So in the future, don't fool around like that. 3. Did you say that he ejaculated in your butt as opposed to in your v****a? ("he came a tiny bit in my but.") Chances are you are not pregnant if you were having a**l sex. It's not impossible, the sperm could always drip down to your v****a, it's just not nearly as likely to cause pregnancy as vaginal sex is. 4. Being young is no excuse for not being careful and mature about sex. Your boyfriend can get condoms. You can also go to Family Planning or Planned Parenthood without your parents knowing. There are options for young people. "Q. He "came" outside my v****a, could I be pregnant? A. It's not very likely. If the sperm was deposited very close to the opening of the v****a, there is a small chance they could make it inside the v****a, but not very likely. They still have to swim a long way from there. If the sperm wasn't close to the v****a (like on your thigh or leg) than the answer is probably not. BUT, please don't make a habit of this, you can use a condom if you are in that situation and there is no penetration involved. Then you will have protection. The high failure rate of a guy “pulling out” makes this 'situation' NOT a form of birth control by any means. This is due to the lubricating presence of pre-ejaculate fluid, which leaks out of the p***s before ejaculation. In many cases with many people there are more than enough sperm to impregnate a female. That's probably why there are so many of us here on this planet. Bottom line: Use birth control methods that work, see Birth Control. Also, see “Can I Get Pregnant If...” http://www.coolnurse.com/sex_faqs5.htm
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Posted: Sun Dec 10, 2006 12:22 am
Quote: I am 15 and my boyfriend is 19. (Which means he can go to jail for having sexual intercourse with me) Anyway three months ago we were mucking around and we got a little too far and he told me to stop but I didn't hear him and he came a tiny bit in my but. We stopped instantly and I went and cleaned up. It was only a tiny bit. A tiny bit is still enough to get you pregnant. Quote: P.S I havn't gone to a Doctor because if my Parents find out they will charge my boyfriend of almost two years and send him to jail when getting intimate was my choice. If it was consensual sex, meaning it was HIS choice too and not just yours, then that's the risk you take. Either wait until you're old enough to have sex legally, or realize he could go to jail and screw up his life by being labeled a child molestor or child abuser. This would not only affect your relationship with him, but it might injure his family, his future job/career options, and so on. It's not something to take lightly, and it seems that if you two aren't taking this seriously enough. Use birth control, or wait. Really not that hard. Sorry to be a b***h, but I don't know what else to say.
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Posted: Sun Dec 10, 2006 12:32 am
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Posted: Sun Dec 10, 2006 10:19 pm
I'm sorry, I missed part of your earlier post. redface
If he ejaculated in your "but", I'm presuming you mean your a**s, in which case you cannot get pregnant as long as no ejaculate got in/near your v****a.
You can't get pregnant from a**l sex. You can from p***s to v****a intercourse.
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Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2006 3:01 am
I can almost guarentee you you're not pregnant. For one, pregnant women start feeling fetal movement at 18-22 weeks... not 2 weeks. wink
Chances are you're sick, to be honest, or having some other issues. Even STRESS (i.e. worrying too much!) can make you skip periods.
I'm not going to say take a pregnancy test. I'm going to say that if it doesn't even out, and if you keep feeling weird, go to your doctor instead because you're probably not pregnant.
Now... on the topic of your boyfriend. If you're 15 and he's 19... well, knock it off. I hate to say it like that, but you have NO CLUE what could happen if anyone reported him. It doesn't matter AT ALL if you say it's consentual... as far as the court is concerned, you're a minor and your opinion doesn't matter. When someone is convicted of child molestation, which this would be, it goes on their record FOR LIFE. Every job application, it's written down. Every state website will list his name, picture, and offense. Finding any kind of job is VERY hard. IF he went to jail, child molestors are like the bottom rung... below adult murderers. He would get raped, torture, molested, amongst a million other things. So, in short, if you don't wish to ruin his life, wait a measly 3 years until you're an adult too so this isn't a problem.
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Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2006 5:25 pm
Savina pregnant women start feeling fetal movement at 18-22 weeks... not 2 weeks. She said it's been three months, not two weeks, sister.
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Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2006 9:50 pm
Like everyone has said, you can't get preggers from a**l sex. It could be a possibility that if it slid down onto your v****a that you could. That is really small percentage.
You won't be able to feel the "baby" kick at such an early time.
I know that you don't want to go to the doctor b/c of your parents but there are other options to where they won't find out. Here in NC you can go to a doctor and they can't say anything to your parents if you ask them to give you a p-test or birth control. It's just you're going to have to act like your sick to get to go to the doctor.
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Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2006 2:23 am
Lilacwolf Savina pregnant women start feeling fetal movement at 18-22 weeks... not 2 weeks. She said it's been three months, not two weeks, sister. I missed the '1' key to say 12 weeks. Cut me some slack or I'll beat your cat. wink
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Posted: Mon Dec 18, 2006 9:26 pm
I did take a test. I'm not pregnant. I have my period now too.
Yeah, I'm not going to do anything with him because I don't want to in anyway stuff up the rest of his life.
Thank you everyone for telling me straight, you've made me open my eyes a lot more.
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Posted: Tue Dec 19, 2006 10:28 am
Zuluu I did take a test. I'm not pregnant. I have my period now too.
Yeah, I'm not going to do anything with him because I don't want to in anyway stuff up the rest of his life.
Thank you everyone for telling me straight, you've made me open my eyes a lot more. Just becareful. If you're not ready for a baby, don't have reckless sex. Even during a**l sex, you should use a condom for just such instances =D
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