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GregKun

PostPosted: Thu Dec 07, 2006 4:04 pm


ok heres the deal, Ive come out to my mom *fine*, by two frinds *both cool*, plus my mom has for one reaosn or another told my aunt who then told my other aunt who told most of the fmaily ><*strangely enough...its all cool*, but i still havent told my best friend yet! Ive been trying to tell her for a while now but either she keeps getting pulled into work or whatever and I dont want to rush telling her or anyhting. Its starting to bother me to becuase for some reaosn she keeps flaking out on meeting up with me without an explanation *whole other story* what should I do? should I just tell her over the phone or wait until she gets home? I actually dont know why im so anxious about it, she totally fine with gay ppl, and she L-O-V-E LOVES yaoi stuff *I dont*, its just im her best friend, ive known her for 9 years and used to have a "crush" on her...im just thinking our friendship might falter if I tell her, what should I do sad
PostPosted: Thu Dec 07, 2006 7:40 pm


I'd say wait until you're in person, just incase she has an emotional response of any kind, it'd be best for her to not be in a public place or in the middle of doing something.

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Shadow of Fantasy

PostPosted: Thu Dec 07, 2006 8:33 pm


Everything come in due time! If she really likes Loveless their is nothing to worry about! In fact she might be thrilled! You just have to find the time to tell her, like invite her to diner or something. You know something she can't reject but also not something that kind of forces her to go. I'm glad for you that everyone has had a good reaction to you being gay. Hopefully and I'm sure, she will too!
PostPosted: Thu Dec 07, 2006 8:42 pm


I'm agreeing with everyone that's been said so far. Tell her in person, it'll mean more that way and you'll both have a better grasp of what's going on. And make sure she isn't feeling pressured or forced or anything, cause then it's sort of like you're backing her into a corner. Try and do it nice and relaxed, focus on the good vibes and such.

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