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 Posted: Fri Nov 10, 2006 2:35 pm
So hum well, I'm probably not the only girl with that problem, but I still feel pretty weird about it.
The thing is that I've tried a lot of stuff to pleasure myself. Fingers, in the bath tub with the faucet, electric toothbrush...I've tried both vaginal and clitoral stimulation. The first one hurted like a b***h (I don't use tampons or anything so...) and the second just didn't seem effective, I didn't feel pleasure...AT ALL, it was only uncomfortable. Serisously, I tried a lot of things, but none worked. The only time I can get some pleasure is when I'm highly excited but that's pretty rare. Not a lot of things turn me on. BUT I'm always like, a bit horny...so I'd like to be able to please myself.
Oh yeah, my ex boyfriend would do the same things as I try to do but it would be like...very enjoyable, but that's probably because he is one of my biggest turn-on. Even if we're still very good friends, asking him some help would be pretty awkard... So, here is why I ask YOU guys...do you have any ideas or suggestions on how I can
-Get excited more easily
-Find some way to masturbate that works for me
I probably seem like, new to this and kind of an idiot, but I'm desperate gonk
Thanks in advance!
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Posted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 1:17 am
Maybe foreplay with his tongue or fingers?
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Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 1:34 pm
Eh, I said he was my ex, so hum, I guess I'll forget the tongue or fingers sweatdrop
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Posted: Fri Nov 17, 2006 2:16 pm
For the c**t, it was uncomfortable to me too but after awhile i started feeling the pleasure. Try watching porn without touching yourself for about 10 minutes. You should get extremely horny after this, then rub your c**t. Not hard but in a teasing way. Hell get naked if you want, that's a good way in my opinion.
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Posted: Sat Dec 16, 2006 9:52 am
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Posted: Tue Jan 09, 2007 2:01 pm
Watching porn tends to turn me on as I would assume it does for most people. Of course, there's a difference between crappy porn and good porn so remember that. I'm going say just try different things. Get on one for awhile and don't give up for awhile. My old method got somewhat uneffective after a time because it was just too much pressure and it was really hard for me to be able to switch cause I'd never done it any other way. However, I have successfully switched to a much better way (and now my bf is capable of getting me off which wasn't happening before).
So it really is possible to kinda change yourself. You just have to put in a lot of time and feel confident about it. And be patient.
Also, really tease yourself a lot before doing anything.
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